Hair Cut, Effective Ways to Heal Broken Heart?

The survey, conducted online shopping site Superdrug to 2,000 women revealed that 75% of women are willing to spend U.S. $ 782 or about $ 7 million to transform its appearance after a breakup. The average of them went to the salon for a haircut, manicure pedicure, buy clothes and make-up is also a list to the gym.

The number of women who are soon to change his appearance after the breakup, begs the question: Can a person overcome a broken heart and forget the ex-boyfriend with a haircut or buying new clothes? The answer, it could be “yes”, at least according to most respondents in the poll on the site Your Tango.

Romance the polling sites to the 1329 respondents conducted between the period December 21, 2011 and January 9, 2012. The results they found, 64 percent of people claim to want to change its appearance after a broken heart, most of the weight loss. A total of 35 per cent stated that they were motivated out of love for the sport to the gym and diet.

There are also 30 percent of people choose to buy clothes or make-up only after the breakup, and 26 percent would rather change their hair style. More than 80 percent of respondents agreed, a breakup with a lover can be a good opportunity to improve themselves. Meanwhile, the third most popular activities are advised people to forget the bitterness of a love story is a shop (togethers with friends and sports took first place in the second place).

Why do many women want to change its appearance immediately after a breakup, and whether the way it can successfully treat pain? How effective? Dr. Margaret Paul, romance and marriage therapist and author of “Healing Your Aloneness’ say, when a relationship ends, we want to change something goes wrong. In pop culture, the expression ‘change’ is usually more focused on external factors, especially the appearance. So according to margaret, very natural that the first thing we want to change is like a slimming appearance, change hair, berias yourself and buy new clothes.

In the inter-personal communication, we want to convince yourself that by changing something from the outside will make a difference in next time. Of course there’s nothing wrong with doing a variety of changes, as long as it can make someone feel better for all.But Margaret advised to not lie to myself. Do not ever expect to have a better hairdo or a slimmer figure, you will get longer love or want to get back ex boyfriend.

The breakdown was not romantically just because your hair style is not good. Effort to overcome a broken heart requires greater self-development. Not only the change from the outside but from within. So, what should really be changed? Love relationship breakup is inevitable because of many causes, but not to make you neglect yourself because it is too late in the dumps.

Love and respect yourself can be done through the external appearance such as dress and new hairstyle. But the external changes that follow a bold sense of responsibility on your own, and that is what will make you a better person after a breakup.