Having Sex and Making Love

Having sex and making love are two very different things

Having sex you are more alone while making love is more together.
The first case is more easily turned to pleasure, there are concerns of receiving, of feeling, of pleasure, often in the immediate here and now, even without worrying so much about who we are on the side that is often important only for satisfy us. Was no longer alone, do not communicate.

Making love is, however, experience the pleasure together, is a dialogue, not two monologues.

To have sex there is absolutely no need for intimacy: you can do anyway; he gets a bit ‘of pleasure and that was it. I said a little ‘pleasure because it is very little compared to what they love doing it

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Intimacy is an integral part of making love, to embrace more confident, aware of sharing something, to live with what you do, not critically, not prepared to judge whether those close to us is able, or willing, give us all the pleasure that belongs to us and that we want. E ‘be together because he wants because you are good together, with the desire to make others feel good as we’re fine. It ’still share. And if the other, or the other, does what we expect we will help him, to understand, to drive, but without animosity and without feeling cheated, because if the approach is the same by both there will have been aware selfishness

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Knowing that this is so then we will be much more relaxed and less beset by anxiety of performance, “making it” much more with much more intensity and enjoying what’s happening.

The pleasure comes in the emotions, and through the stimulation of some nerve ending makes us live a fantastic time. If we take away the emotions and leave only the nerve stimulation we take away 80% of the pleasure. Who identifies pleasure with the mechanical stimulation, well experienced, has not, unfortunately for him (or her), never experienced what we are talking about, do not even know what we’re talking about. The pleasure of making love is something that we place all live, it is much easier than you think, is a question of approach, how and why we are doing what we’re doing.