Here’s a Tip for Relationships… of any Kind!

Recently, being married to my husband, I have discovered one thing, giving each other compliments is really important, It makes each other feel good, gives you more confidence, makes you have more faith, believe more in things you wouldn’t normally feel like believing, feeling more courageous. You Just Feel BETTER. And with something as little as a compliment. Amazing huh?

My husband usually leaves for work at seven and I’m usually dead asleep, but when I wake up, I wake up to his text saying Good morning Beautiful, or Good morning my Angel. Or when we wake up together, he kisses my forehead and tells me I’m beautiful and he loves me, I’ve realized how much those words mean to me. I usually tell him Good morning my love! Good morning Handsome! Something along those lines, and somehow it just makes the day better, brighter.

I love waking up to his texts, sometimes he texts me telling me what he loves about me, and I do it back and the day just feel brighter! It makes each other feel good about themselves, lets you know that the other person is thinking of you!
How wonderful of a feeling is that!!!

Some guys I know feel weird or stupid or are to shy to give compliments but I bet if you gave it a shot you’d be surprised what you might get in return!!
If you’ve read any of my other articles, you know I preach highly of giving compliments and respect. Why? Because people value them. A LOT! A lot more then they let on, and it does matter, even to those who says it doesn’t. People need to be praised. Need to be complimented once in a while! Even complete strangers!

Sometimes I’ll be walking into a store and I’ll see a lady with long beautiful hair or a cool pair of shoes and I’ll think “her hair is gorgeous!” and instead of keeping that thought to myself I go up and tell them. I just give them the compliment and smile. And I know sometimes it can Brighten a person’s WHOLE DAY!!!

Isn’t that amazing???
So take one second out of your day to compliment the person you love, the one your friends with, your mom, your brother, a Complete stranger!!! Do it with a smile!!!
I’ve seen the results of compliments, hello’s and smiles, what power they have! They can turn a grumpy mean person into someone new with time!! It’s happened a few times in my life! Its a great feeling!!

I hope I always cherish my husbands words to me. He compliments me a lot, and the best thing is, he Mean’s it! Its really nice and wonderful to hear and know he believes in me like that! And I try my best to do the same to him!
Women and Men need praise and compliments just as much as children, if Not MORE.

Go ahead!!! Give it a try!! I DARE you!! Go compliment someone!! Heck try complimenting your enemy!! Throw them completely off balance!!

Try it

Written by Emmalee Miller