How a Guy Should Treat a Girl

by asmaa in Relationships, February 27, 2010

Understand her feelings.. and then the list is as follows..

Be a patient listener and listen to things she wishes to share with you.
When she is excited, show your excitement too, so that she knows that there’s someone who cares for her truly.
Give her pleasant surprises from time to time to avoid the same old routine.
Do special things for her when she least expects it.
Never do things that she hates no matter how much you love doing it or do it out of anger.
Try to understand her feelings when she is quiet and not normal as usual. she definitely has something to say but does not know how you will react.
Try to console her and don’t lose hope if she does not get normal within the time you want her to.it might take longer.
Never make her cry! you need to know the reasons which makes her cry often.try not to repeat them again.
When she says that she loves you a lot, believe it because she means it truly.
Try to see the change in her after she got along with you. you will definitely see many big ones.appreciate them cos they are meant only for you. One point worth mentioning here is that usually girls change their short-tempered behaviour to a patient one just to avoid mishaps. You never know your girl must also be doing that!
Never expect a girl to do everything you want her to do.In doing so, you only create a sense of bossiness towards her.You might get what you want but your girl will not be happy and might just submit to your will to see you happy.
If your girl is : 1) a better speaker than doer in romance- you have to support her by exchanging romantic conversations.Or she will take this as a bad talent and stop it gradually. 2) a better doer than a speaker in romance- in this case also you need to act physically along with her to improve her confidence.
Never make a girl feel guilty for the mistakes she has committed in the past if she has completely realized her mistakes.this will only lead to depression in the girl’s mind and the feeling of being imperfect will haunt her ever!
Never make fun of her in front of others. girls hate this to the core.
When you have a fight with her, always try to listen to what she has to say peacefully.not to forget,explain yourself in a calm and caring manner why you are angry at her.yelling only leads to broken hearts and so does not discussing the matter with her.
Be a good lover to her always and be ready for her when she is crying even if it is because of you! never take that cry of hers as “just another meaningless cry” ’cos girls don’t cry for meaningless things.
ask her what she likes in a good – guy way and she is sure to tell you after sometime.
When you are asked to describe her,or praise her in a unique way,then just go for it without having a second thought because girls love to hear about themselves from their guys even if it is a bit bad.
be the best you can as though there’s no tomorrow and not only to her but also to her family and loved ones.that’s one place where guys go wrong.Never complain about her family to her,as you will end up creating a bad image in her mind of not understanding her loved ones.

best of luck for a good start from now-on and don’t disappoint her. Few girls express out their disappointment by acting rudely and talking harsh, while others keep quiet thinking it’s their fate to be hurt like that.