How Dare You Replace Pinocchio with a Real Boy?

         You have moved on with your life and you assumed that the narcissist would have been glad to have you out of his weave. But he is not. Do not be surprised. The narcissist believes that he will always have emotionally influence over his woman and the very idea of one of the women leaving him for another man disproves his notions of irreplaceable and importance. No doubt, he will not be happy to know that you have found someone that you think is better than him. It is harsh statement to the narcissist that i have found someone that is worth my time and emotional investment. Pinocchio will be mad! How dare you replace Pinocchio with a real boy?  You have taken something very valuable from Pinocchio and rest assure he will make you pay!

        The narcissist like Pinocchio knows he is not real and that he is make belief regardless of the speciality that people bequeath upon him. In the back of his mind, Pinocchio knows that he will never be like other boys. He does not have emotions. He cannot feel and he will not grow. Like the narcissist, Pinocchio is stuck at one human phase of development and cannot surpass that phase.

   The female realises that Pinocchio is not a real boy and her fascination with him has receded. She found a real partner and discarded Pinocchio. Pinocchio is mad as hell and will do anything to get back at his ex for exchanging him and destroying his ideals.

The narcissist sees your new relationship as basically a fassage and there is nothing that you can do to convince him that you have moved on with your life. In his mind, you are substituting this person for what you cannot have (which is the great him of course). If you had groveled to him for love and attention for several months and years, he will find it hard to believe that you have decided to live your life without his superior presence and inputs.  He is still thriving on the love and affection that you exhibited years ago. In his mind, he can destroy that dolly house of a relationship that you possess. In his mind you will never forget him. How dare you replace Pinocchio with a real boy?  You must be faking your emotions. He will destroy that relationship that you have just to prove his point.  He may decide to come back, but not because he wants you but simply because he wants to damage what you have managed to accomplished outside of his presence.