Genuine, sincere and honest people will make it KNOWN if they like you, are attracted to you and if they wish to pursue a relationship.  Its not quantum physics.  If you have ever found yourself wondering or asking others what they think this guy feels about you, then its a pretty good indication that he is not as interested in you as YOU are in him.  

Do you think he is asking his friends what YOU think of HIM? Do you think he is wondering about YOUR intentions?

Very often clients come to me and say someone is giving them ‘mixed messages’.  You know what that means? MIXED FEELINGS.  If someone is all over you one day and distant the next then it mean many things, none of them positive.

It could be that you are their ’stand in’ and they are all over you when the leading lady is not around, but the second she is, then you become the understudy.

It could be that they are only looking for time with you on their terms and their timetable, so when THEY want something from you, you are treated like a Princess and when they dont you literally drop off their radar.

Its very important to look at actions, they truly speak louder than words.  Many men will indicate that they want a long term relationship, a commitment or even marriage, but unless their ACTIONS are backing this up, then apply caution. When a man tells you he wants a commitment from you, it holds you in a place that is convenient for HIM.  You give him loyalty, make him a priority and dont date anyone else.  All very commendable IF he is sincere, if he isnt then all that is happening is that he is securing you as back up by telling you things that will stop you looking outside of what you have with him.

Never make someone your priority if you are only an option to them.