How I View Romance

Romance. It is the passion, fuel, fire and thought behind the love. It is something everyone enjoys (some more than others). It is also something difficult for many to understand.

I’ve spoken with men and women who have told me they want to be more romantic, but they aren’t sure how? Romance is something I have been interested in and researching for many years. I have found romance can mean different things to different people. Some like the candlelight dinners on a secluded beach while others enjoy a neck massage and quiet conversation.

I have found though for most people (myself included), the thought and effort behind the action is what makes it special.

Some ideas may be as simple as a text on his/her cell phone saying hello. Or maybe an e-card (there are so many free sites these days with choices). Picking a rose from your garden is a nice gesture. Maybe making dinner and chosing a romantic movie to watch together? These things are simple and not expensive, yet say so much.

Being romantic is a constant, conscious effort needed in a relationship. Without it, the significant other may feel unappreciated, undesirable and unwanted. After a while, people who have been in a relationship with eachother for many years tend to fall into a rut. They become so comfortable with eachother that many assume their significant other already knows how they feel. While that may be true, there will be a part of them missing what used to be.

Find out how your partner defines romance. Open the communication for new discovery. It is nice to check in and be sure their needs are being met. Explore, renew and embrace the union you two have made.