How Much Do You Trust The Other?

     You know how at times, when we fall in love, everything seems to be clouding our mind from the truth. Especially for the girls. Everytime when we fall in love with this one guy, we keep saying to ourself “this is the one”, but ends up that he isn’t. One weakness of girls, we believe men too quickly. maybe some of you don’t, your the stronger ones. But like me, I notice many of us are like that. because of their sweet words, we grow to trust them blindly without even really fully know them well. Even when the guys that your seeing are messaging another girl behind your back, and telling to your face that its just a business partner, you would believe him. Even start to imagine him at work, busy at his work to get his pay increase so that he could propose with a diamond ring. Don’t trust the men 100%, maybe just 99%. But for the guys, even if the ladies trust you 99%, that 1 little percent may just crush that whole 99%, and you would eventually lose that perfect girl. Not only that, you hurt her in the most evil way a girl could ever imagine. You lost her trust and trust, its something you have to earn once you lost it.

     But what about the trust place in friendship? If you were to meet me and personally ask me this, i would say, we all are basically alone. There is no one in the world that you could give all your trust to. Not even your friends. Some trust, yes, but not 100%. We make friends, we lose friends. But the best part is if we could make new ones and still keep the old ones. But sometimes, its just seem impossible. Like what had recently happened to me. A friend that i thought is my truly best friend, that i could tell her anything that is bothering me, that i could trust her to keep my secrets and what ever I told to her. Ever since she met new friends of hers, she had forgotten me. I do not blame her, or hate her…but I have been thinking…all those things that i have said to her, will she still keep them as our little secrets or would she tell them to those new friends of hers?

     Like what I have said so often to many different people, that trust, is not just a word. It is something that we place on other people, like a mark. It is easily put on, but once its being erase, there is no way to have that mark to appear again. “Trust is something you have to earn, not ask for”. Be wise in choosing the ones that you trust.