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How Not to Dump Someone That Cares About You

If you don’t want to feel guilty don’t do any of this.

So there you are, tired of answering his/her phone calls, tired of coming up with convincing excuses not to meet the person.And you don’t know how to breakup in a gentle way.

If you want to avoid that horrible feeling of guilt :

1.Don’t rush into it

It’s better to prepare the person but you can’t just disappear and switch off your mobile phone.You need to try to show the person how incompatible you are but in a very subtle way.

2 Don’t take months to tell them either

The more time it takes the more attached the person will get and that would make things really dramatic.

4. Don’t dump by text or email

How cruel is that?! You gotta show more consideration.

5. Don’t do it in any place other then his/her place

Take the time to go there just to show you at least cared about talking face to face.Find some acceptable reason for the break up.Incompatibility,different lifestyles is a good thing to say.

6. Don’t be honest

I know this doesn’t sound like a good advice but it is…there’s things you can’t tell the person, it will make them feel embarrassed and with low self esteem…you want your exit  to be smooth.

Voila…next

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