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How The Narcissist Sees Women

The narcissist sees women as no less important that sexual objects made solely to satisfy his sexual ego. Women have a hefty influence over men and can encourage men to change their behavior and ideals. The narcissist considers himself a super being over other men and thereof will not be affected by women. This is the reason why the minute that he begins to have feelings for a woman, he begins to distance himself.

             

              The narcissist sees women as no less important that sexual objects made solely to satisfy his sexual ego and apetite. Women have a hefty influence over men and can encourage men to change their behavior and ideals. The narcissist considers himself a super being over other men and thereof will not be affected by women. This is the reason why the minute that he begins to have feelings for a woman, he begins to distance himself. This disregard, fear and

            Narcissist fears intimacy because it causes one to lose them and let their guards down.  His alloplastic defenses kicks in as he begins to abuse his spouse as a way of distancing himself from her and processing his insecurities.  He hates women because they often see the real side of him that he hides from the wider society.  They are allowed to get close to him than most individuals due to sex and intimacy. They are permitted to witness any emotions (motions) that the narcissist may be experiencing.

                 Emotional and psychological abuse is utilized as a means of keeping women in their place. Narcissists have a need for control over their spouses so as to stem their behavior. Many narcissists understand that there is something wrong with their behavior and the way they treat women. That is the reason why the narcissist pretends to be the ideal mate when he meets a woman. He wants her to fall in love with that image that he portrayed at the inception of the relationship.  When his phantasm begins to fade, he has the insurance that you are still in love with the replica that he gave at the beginning.  He assumes that since women like him, then it is ok for him to show his true colors and that she will stay because she has invested deeply in the union to want to back out now.

     Narcissist are very insecure and jealous of other men because they know that they do not have the best relationship with women. They are afraid that their woman will leave with another man. Narcissist generally demean other men he percieves as a threat in the presence of thier women as an attempt to reduce the possibility of his mate finding interest. Narcissist will be very intolerant of a woman’s male work colleague or boss that she heaps praise on for fear that he may usurp his position. He may request that her mate leave her job.  Narcissist will insist that his woman live as far as possible from her friends and family which gives him a measure of control and authority over her life and movements.

 

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