How to be Happy and Married
by Some people think of marriage and almost gag. The thought of work (which every marriage requires) does not seem worth the effort. They could not be more wrong. Marriage is a blessing. Here is how both people in the marriage can be happy.
Compromise. NO one person should benefit from the relationship. It should be mutual and pleasing to both. Try asking the other person what he/she wants to do. Be interested in want he/she needs. You may be surprised that you learn something new about your lover.
He/She is not perfect. There will be annoying traits that will have you considering divorce once and awhile. But realize that everyone has them. Yes even you 
because no one is perfect.
Communication is the key. If you find you and your love one arguing every time you communicate try swallowing your pride a little and let the other person speak. Try to practice listening more as opposed to needing to be heard. If your love one sees you being a bigger person , you could inspire them to want to improve. They will eventually start listening. But yelling at the top of your lungs will not work.
Appreciate. You never appreciate what you’ve got until its gone. Don’t let this be true for you. There is no guarantee that you will have a second chance at true love.
Have sex. Yea.. I said it. Have sex! Sex is great for you and your mate. Sex connects you all spiritually. It is intimate and no one else can connect with you like your hubby or wifey. Which brings me to my next tip…
Don’t cheat. I don’t care how bad things are going in your marriage. Be honest. Cheating feels good in the moment but the after effects are ugly. The only thing cheating brings in the long run is pain, shame and guilt. If you have a conscious you will feel so guilty that you will end up confessing. If you don’t confess you will eventually get caught. Don’t get mad that is just the way it goes. Even if you all have an “open relationship”, or a mutual agreement to outsource, it will cause inward resentment, jealousy and maybe some extra visitors you didn’t invite!
Set goals and dreams and work together to accomplish them. Because doing something feels a whole lot better than doing nothing.
These tips are given assuming the two people actually love each other and no one is being abused. If you experience any abuse verbally, emotionally or physically you should leave that situation.Other than that…!
Love, laugh and live!
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