How to be the “Better Ex”
by We all know that many break ups has many things left unsaid. It’s true to leave things unsaid but honestly, there will always be head buttings along the way. Whether you sea each other at work or in the hallways to next period in school or even Myspace – since they have those suggestion things added. It is never fixed not letting every bitter words left in you to stay there; they’re waiting to be buried and until then, you will always be in denial. Whether you still love him or not – I’m sure you have “what could have been’s and what if’s” still lingering.
So, it’s “the break up” this time, eh?! What do you plan to do now? Mope around and cut out every puctures and letters, then eat a whole gallon of rocky road and mind chocolate with whip cream? Trust me, you’ll be hitting 24 hour fitness in a second. Go ahead and listen to those sad sappy love songs you both used to sing, take out those picture you took of him looking at you and ask him everything you want to ask. Imagine all the worst possible answers he could give you then pretend you both lobe each otther one last time. Then have a ball and cry him a river and ask God to drown him in it to let him soak up the sorrows you have. It may sound cruel now but seriously, if you think about it, it feels so much better knowing you cried it all out. It’s theraphy – crying is a great expression of happiness and/or sadness; it release stress.
Second stage, you face the douche bag 
If you both have classes together and if he’s not the brightest person (which would be a plus), show him not only did he let go of you, he also let go of his ticket to passing and graduation. But if you see him at work, give him a smirk and tell yourself “Ha, say goodbye to your income, @$$%*#&”. He’ll probably realizes and start stapling his head, haha. Seeing him single is probably the easiest term to show off any abilities and freedom that you now have. What better way to show it by still saying hello to all his friends; formally known as yours, too. Drop by his parents’ house before he get home to have a little conversation and leave them wanting you around the next day or so. That should tell him that he might have broken your heart but that’s not going to stop you from seeing the other things that were in your past relationship; communication between his families and friends drives them insane. They will want to know what you all are talking about, he will be eager to talk to you but you must play it cool and pretend, you’re human and so are they, talking is a daily thing. Make it clear to him that just because we stopped committing to each other, does not mean you are forbidden to keep a relationship with others whom was there to witness everything.
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