How to Become a Better Boyfriend

How To Become A Better Boy Friend.

So you’ve met the girl of your dream’s, you really like her but you don’t want to spoil anything, or at least to give her any grounds to finish it with you. We all know that men hide behind a tough exterior and don’t like to show any emotions of the loving kind way, whilst in your friends company, and me being a man myself I know, well sort of, what it is like to not have the option to choose whether the want to be the, soft sensitive gentle man, that most girls seem to like. Or the tough, macho I don’t feel any emotion type of guy, who wouldn’t be suited to strong lasting marriage, or even a marriage at all, girls would probably only stay the night with or a short time period of a sexual relationship. You see people and I’m sure you’re the same if you’re the kind loving kind of guy, you can’t express that without being called gay, and if you get called gay then the chances are girls don’t want to date you at all! This is a bit of a loss. Well some of you will be thinking, and especially if you’re a girl and thinking well girls go for the macho type of men, yes this is true but take a moment out to think about this for a second the type of guy that you can have a actual chat with and getting what you expect in a man would hardly be found in the more “macho I don’t feel emotion” kind of guy. Is it? What women really want is someone who will be there for you whenever or whatever the situation, when she’s talking she expects you to be listening, taking it in and making a mental note, even if it is something boring like “should we paint the kitchen orange or yellow. Hmm I like the yellow better but the orange…..’’

Men you need to think to yourself, what do I want from a relationship?  Do I want love and a life partner? Or do I want just a quick fumble behind the bike shed? And let me tell you it’s not the bike shed idea.