Becoming a player requires special discipline. These will be outlines in a series of articles- so keep checking for new publications. I will start by identifying the areas of disciplines you need to be proficient in. Next, I will guide you on how to condition your character.

A player is more like an actor. You have to be totally detached from you real emotions. There is no true love in a player vocabulary. A player personality normally evolves from a very bad relationship, leaving the person incapable of true love, and so the games begin. If this is not the case for you, but, you would like to become a player, you will have to cut ties with you heart and become heartless. I will show you how.

Player, like the name suggest, involves playing with you partner’s emotions. More like it’s a game of chess. You have to see relationships- dating for a better word- as nothing more that a win or loose game. If you date a girl, it cost you to entertain her. Your real reason for dating, in the first place, is to get into her pants. Do just that – you win and she looses. The faster you can do it, the better – the less entertaining you have to do. On the other hand, if you date her, spend a lot time and money to impress her and don’t get any action – then you loose and she wins. She got pampered, entertained, and did not give up any. There you have it; player is a win or loose game.

A player only hangs around for the best part in dating. This is when she is at her best behavior and is trying desperately to impress you. This is one reason why a player can never stop playing; players actually elude the problems of long term relations and only experience the best part of dating. Usually a player will hang around – getting booty and enjoying the benefits of new relationship; but as soon as her emotions and jealousy shows up, a true player is gone. Players avoid drama.

Players rule; never get involve with someone you can’t leave is fifteen minutes or less. Yes, every relationship a player gets involved in, he can walk away from it in less then fifteen minutes. A greater part of playing, even more valuable then getting the booty, is mind control. A true player doesn’t make it obvious that he is after some booty. Instead, he targets her heart. Control the heart, and you control the booty plus everything else. Control the heart will have her jumping through hoops for you. This is the ultimate reward for a player. After the victim surrenders, the game is no longer exciting, and the player moves on to the next pray.

This is why players have to be heartless. Ninety percent of his breakups are going to leave broken hearts. A true player never breaks up with his partner. No, he gives her reasons to breakup with him. This keeps the door open so he can return at a later date- if he chooses to. Remember that the girl got dump because she was getting too attached. This means – and he knows – she is already under his spell.

Now, ever so often, a player finds himself a victim to his games, and starts falling for a partner, if he allows himself to fall, he will loose control, and his mind control games will back fire. This he cannot afford. And for this reason a player will not date someone that he could possible fall for. When this is likely to occur, the player has to cut all ties. The first thing a player does when he approach a ‘perfect’ female, is to search for faults. When he finds an imperfection (no matter how small it is), he amplifies it, make it a big deal, even if it isn’t. Another strategy is to depict his partner involved in past relationships, old age, or anything that will trigger a turn off. This restrains the player from getting emotionally attached.

I can prepare you mentally to become a player, but a player needs self confident. Your approach must be flawless. Your first impression must encapsulate her. She must feel lucky to have met you. Her girlfriends must get jealous and envious of her. For this, you need your own style and fashion, bold approach (I can’t stress confidence enough), good sense of humor, and must be able to impress her with intelligent conversations. A player is extremely charming, something we practice to perfection. I will devote an article to charm school. But like I mention earlier, playing is more like acting, you become a second person; this means you have to be a good liar. Your lies should be so convincing, even yourself shouldn’t know the difference. A true player avoids mixing truth with lies; this can get you into trouble. Just start with lies. The more convincing the lies, the better player you will become, besides, you can always replace one lie with another.

In part two of this article, I will walk you through the metal preparations to become a player. Once you unleash the player inside you, you will discover the art of emotion manipulation, and a lot of females will have sleepless night and cry endlessly over you. Play on – player.