How to Become a Player: Part 2

Forced Retirement

Not all player wanna-be will play a good game. Even if you know all the rules, implementing them can be challenging. Most players start at a young age, often high school or collage. As we aged, it is apparent that our prospective of life changes, this normally seclude our game’s shortcomings. It is not necessary that our game got weaker, females have changed or have caught on to your game, but more obvious, is that our status have changed. Remember, a player has to portray as the perfect boyfriend. Very little is expected of you while you are in school, except you get average grades and have cool friends. As we grow older, achievements and accomplishments must grow alongside, or better yet, exceed us. Success is measured with age, and if you fall short, you are no longer cool, instead you have downgraded to the looser line. Underachievement places a damper on your game. I call this, forced into retirement. There is no point in talking the talk if you cannot walk the walk. If this is your situation, you can stop reading now; chances for you becoming an effective player is slim. Once you are behind in personal growth, your confidence will be affected greatly.  Whether you believe it or not, females can zero-in on your imperfections like a mosquito sensing blood. At this point, not all the sweet-talking in Paris can save you. Frankly, you will play a weak game.

Profiling

If you are a confident individual, then you should have no problems approaching girls, but if you do, practice makes perfect. If you approaches, start conversations, but cannot closed, chances are, you are over performing. For both scenarios, start practicing female profiling. There is a lot you can tell from the way a female conduit herself. Body language tells a lot, females use body language as their second language. Learn just how to read them, and you will become an effective communicator. This section requires it own article- its coming.

Projecting your Confidence

People wear their emotion on their faces, if you are not confident a female can since this in a single glance. A simple exercise I can share with you in brief due to the limitation of the scope of this article, is soul searching. What is unique about you? What is so great about you, that this girl should call her mom and talk about you? What about you that is interesting and exciting? What you got that the average Joe does not have? This can be any thing, accomplishments, inheritance, talent, and skill, whatever. Repeated your uniqueness to your self, until you are convinced that you are above average, in fact, you are a rear catch and that this girl should be on her knees thanking God she met you. Use this to project your confidence, yet remain humble.