How to Bounce Back After a Break Up
by Advices on relantion ships.
If YOU ever wonder how life would be without him in the picture , when U just break up , answer its simple:unbearable, not even thinking on the possibility of breathing without him.OK , going to extreme here , but U get the point.First week its the worst in the series; begin the questions in your mind, one by one and now they have no answers:why did he leave; was my fault ? how could i do it different ? where did i go wrong? how can i get him back >? OK, on this one we need a revision .Stop , breathe ,think.U cant get him back .Or maybe U can , but its worth trying? Lets remember first 6 months together.Sweat, kind,flowers etc , U know the candy stuffs to make U realise how amassing he is and how lucky U are to have found him in this world.Now , don’t get me wrong,i don’t hate men just a phrase its sometimes make me think twice before i want him back after a break up:It isn’t U its me.Yes the reason of breaking up its him.U are so amassing but he just doesn’t have time for U in this moment in time.Could be his big break in career, could be your successful career, who knows , just now U don’t fit in his plans.So , like a robin hood, he leaves doing a good deed not ruining your life .
OK, now we agree on one thing.If this individual will stay , it might ruin your life.So its the best to let him go ,cry a few days or hours,take chocolate , all the romantic DVDs,lock in your room and look on your pics together.OK , every corner of your room reminds U of him.Look, here he drink his coffee every morning.OK, he did.Here he told U for the first time .I want to move with U .Then comes the nightmare.Oll the bottles of bear left everywhere,clothes even in the kitchen ,then kitchen its not for men but for women,as his mother told him a great girlfriend has to know as a future wife to take care of her men .OK tricky word here taking care of.
Washing machine has instructions to use.He can read can he ? but its not in his abilities to wash even his own clothes as the TV its on the romantic mood its gone.Feeling better now no ? Well, what about thinking about what U want to do for a change and U never had time because of him ? like U deserted your paintings, your walking through parks cause for him sounded boring,even shopping O god shopping the outlet to forgot any boyfriend and to bounce back like the Phoenix bird from the dust…And a make over , what about that beautiful look U ever wanted to try ? and a new outfit maybe to bust your confidence ? or try a new hair colour ? change your attitude by thinking why he left any way .
Does it word alone scares U ?Means liberty,peace, even that i am the most addicted of defending love , but TRUE love , and that’s another subject,now was just a thrill.its over , didn’t worked , U can always find another person to see U as U really are and your true value and qualities.
Tell me if i am not right when i tell U that life its wonderful.And instead of trying 20 to find 1, U might just step to the right one in your conquest.Give yourself a break U deserved and if U can afforded take a small holiday in a relaxing place ,if not try parks , outdoors location , barbecue with friends , the best solutions to show U hoW wonderful life is and next time U will be more careful and learned from your mistakes.
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