How to Create Intimacy in a Relationship

Being in a relationship, we all aim and want to create that degree of closeness and intimacy. This aspect can make us happier and more contented being inside a relationship. You can measure your ways and you can improve the intimacy with the following suggestions:

1. Both should give a regular and consistent attention for each other and the relationship
2. There’s should be respect for one another and the relationship
3. The regular and healthy verbal communication should be present
4. There should be regular physical contact that is both agreed upon
5. Eye contact is very important so there’s should be frequency of it daily. Also, there should beexcitement and fun together.
6. Both should promote a physical and emotional safety all the time, insecurities should be fixed and not making anything that could cause such insecurities.
7. Giving of surprises on occasion and spontaneous cards, mini gifts.
8. Giving regular expression of feelings both through actions and words.
9. Finding immediate resolution when conflict emerges and not to delay till the following days.
10. Spending regular time alone together, without disturbances.
11. If there are anger and resentments, those be expressed, communicated and resolved
12. Communicate expectations regularly.
13. Requesting or asking for what you want, not demand.
14. Doing things that are truthful and honest to you, no pretentious acts just to please the other.
15. Be honest and straightforward with your partner
16. Accept what you partner’s personality and characteristics are and do not try to change them to what you want them to be.
17. Be happy for your partner’s growth and help to develop them.
18. Don’t blame the other for the problems in your relationship, instead take responsibility.
19. Giving time to listen to what your partner thinks and feels
20. Both should live in the present and hope for a positive future together
21. Both should exercise optimism in the relationship

The two of you should have the same goal and you should talk together your desire of improving your intimacy.