How to Deal with Aloofness Into a Relationship?

by Rubicar in Relationships, May 22, 2010

When we think of a relationship, we always think about man and women relationship,
A husband and a wife, a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship..
Or other relationship from families, friends and relatives.
The question is, Does relationship ends? YES or NO
But why?

90% of the relationship that ends its not about they fall out of love, but despite of love exist; Love is not enough.

Other people would say, love never ends but relationship just end. Literally not all relationship ends.

Dealing with aloofness to a relationship is simply be in a good relationship.

As a reference to what is a good relationship, I used the following description of a good relationship: from the women’s commission site. www.charmeck.org

We can be able to understand the cause of relationship that ends through the knowledge of what we have in a good relationship, in this way we can prevent aloofness in a relationship:

1. A good relationship is one where intimacy develops slowly from a friendship to a commitment.

— every relationship that starts, there is a development of intimacy from being a friend, though we should know that once you are a friend you are making a commitment as well.

2. A good relationship is one that is based on a commitment. You feel secure about the future of the relationship.

— what is commitment? Means to show loyalty, duty or pledge to someone or something. Secured relationship in the future starts with your personal commitment to your partner and to your relationship.

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3. A good relationship is one where two people do not need each other.

— What does this means, An independent relationship to each other, the relationship should grew between both partners and not just the reason of being needy in a relationship.

4. A good relationship is a partnership that is based on friendship and respect.

— You will always know that there is love when respect is present.

5. A good relationship is one where there is a true intimacy of revealing and sharing yourself with your partner as he/she reveals and shares himself/herself also.

— sharing and revealing the emotions or feelings that both partners have is a way of being honest and open, its being comfortable with each other, at the same time being trusting with what you were revealing. In a relationship, Trust should be mutual and always take care of someone’s trust.

6. A good relationship is one where two individuals can resolve conflict in a peaceful and calm manner