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How to Deal with an Unresponsive Boyfriend

Instead of mourning over your unresponsive boyfriend, take the initiative and do something. If you value your relationship, do not let his unresponsiveness be the cause of your parting.

Let’s face it gals – boys are not very responsive. I know this from my personal experience. But that doesn’t mean that they hate you.

So let’s keep this in mind before we jump into any conclusion or seek for advice/solutions.

Yes boys are like that and sometimes we just gotta accept the fact.

But what if things go overboard? What if you feel that you’re simply in love with a hard rock? That isn’t fun, right? So how to deal with one such unresponsive boyfriend?

Ignore him

I’ve had super success rates when I do this. Yes just ignore your boyfriend instead of going after him and poking him often. When you become tired of his unresponsive nature, you become one of the same kind. Just go unresponsive.

Don’t pick up his calls, don’t call back, don’t respond positive to any outing requests, do not show up in places where you go after him (like his college or his room).

Stay away from him. And this should kindle the interest in him. He will become curious and come checking out

for you. Even when that happens, remember to underplay. Do not get excited and pour out all your feelings.

Hide

In relation to ignoring him, hiding also works great (especially when you ignore him AND hide yourself at the same time)! They become curious as to why you are behaving differently.

Do not also show up in chats (on Facebook, or messenger etc.). When he calls do not pick up. Pick up occasionally to say that you’re busy and ask him to call afterward.

Dodge him and he will become super responsive.

Talk to him

As I said earlier, most boys are introverts; or they don’t react “that much” as we girls do. That’s totally normal and your boyfriend could be part of that normal herd.

So just talk to him. Take the initiative in starting up conversations. Don’t wait for your boyfriend to be responsive. Rather let yourself be the starter of nifty things. Be it a normal conversation or asking for a date out, or conversing to solve an issue between you both – start it first and lead.

Get dirty

No boy could really be unresponsive to this. Do the dirty talk. Send him dirty sms, or chat messages. Send him surprise dirty cards (real cards, not e-cards – they’re not THAT effective, you know).

Men usually like women to take the lead when it comes to this matter (ya know what I mean). So yes give it to him.

They will surely be open to responding to dirty talks.

Wait, go a step further and ask dirty questions; make them sound serious as if you really want to know the information and you’re not just playing around.

This should start the engine.

Takeaway

Instead of mourning over your unresponsive boyfriend, take the initiative and do something. If you value your relationship, do not let his unresponsiveness be the cause of your parting.

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