How to Fall in Love with The Same Person a Million Times

Love is a Choice.

Some people say that love is not a feeling but a choice. We can’t say love is not a feeling because is something that we have inside, it’s overwhelming, it gives us happiness and sadness too, the love moves the world.

But love can be a choice and when we choose the person, we are going to love and that person worth the effort we can not give up easily!

Something really important is not to confuse love with passion. Passion is the perfect complement of love because passion makes love explosive, that’s why when passion goes down or disappear we can think that we are not in love anymore. OK, OK, OK, those butterflies in your stomach are great and unforgettable, but to find the person we choose to love and fight for her, it’s more satisfactory long-term or maybe for the rest of your life.

That’s it, the secret to fall in love with the same person a million times is to choose her, when we choose to love somebody, all her faults, problems and things we dislike of him or her begin to be part of our life, as well as the time, first enemy of love, became in a faithful partner.

We can create passion, that’s called “feed the fire”, Passion is that fire that burns us and highlight us. Imagination is our best allied in all this process, everyday we should make it as the first one.

Little details, loving words, little whispers in the ear and more, are little things that feed the love. Love is like a plant, if you don’t feed it properly it withers.

Especially patience, if we choose to love somebody, we choose the whole package…. We can’t run with the first stumble, the first fight, the first problem or the first mistake that would be the easiest escape, but the one and only thing we have to run from is ROUTINE.

On those hard days remember the first day you knew that person was THE ONE, think in all the reasons why you choose her and try to go back with her to that moment.    

Communication is vital in a relationship, if you can’t communicate, your couple never will know why is happening whatever is happening. A lot of couples have this privilege, but many others just keep quiet and wait to see things solve by themselves, that just make wider the abyss of silence. If your words don’t come out, write them, but always with sweetness even if you want to say how much she or he hurt you.

Details and a lot of work, that is LOVE, the real one, the love that lasts forever. We can complement it with passion to be explosive!, that’s not all, the person that makes us feel good that get the best of us and love to see us grow everyday, that’s the one!