How to Find Love with Women?

I have struggled to find love for a very long time. Guess what, I’m still struggling to find it. (By the way just to be on the same page, we are talking about girl friend/ boy friend love and not the friend and family love).

I am a little above my mid 20’s and was with 3 women, that I thought I loved at the time, but I guess i was just too young to understand what it meant. I was too career driven and had a lot of career related ambitions to full fill that I did not get the time to find myself a proper girl friend. I would go out to clubs and party out, occasionally grind on some woman and make out with them on the dance floor or I would bring home a girl I worked with in the Office, or I would be seeing some girl while I was in the University. Then there are times when I would do little ass grabbing and kissing with girls I worked with, (not the same girl).  Or I would get involved with some 30 year old chick with a 13 year old child to take care, of her own. My Friends thought that getting involved with the 30 yr old is real success for a guy younger than her.  In spite of all this experience, if u think I’m a stud with women, I would personally disagree because I never fell in love with either of them. 

So what are you doing with your life to make love happen for you. Well there were brief times when I was without women at all. I learned something else from this experience. I joined the gym, did a little yoga class, did some salsa class, made friends on line and in social events, attended some speed dating and single events and had fun meeting people. But still didn’t find love that way.

I could personally go on with the list, although I didn’t find love, I would never call it a waste of time. This is what Im trying to say to guys/girls out there. You have to go out and have fun, because people would rather want to hang out with fun loving people than those who are depressed. Finding love is about meting people.

If you want to find love, then you really need to go out and meet people and do loads of different activities. But that does not mean that you should meet people with the mind set that your purpose is to find love, instead the mind set should be about having fun meeting people, without the sole purpose of making love or finding that special some one. here are some links on how to meet people: http://socyberty.com/advice/understanding-how-attraction-works-with-women/ . If you are in your early 30s and 40s I suggest checking out this link: http://socyberty.com/sexuality/older-men-and-women-who-never-experienced-love-before/

Oh and another thing for those who just want to get laid, nothing beats the feeling of being loved by others. For guys out there take this test on women: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=2zaQJ1H26XYPqUkk7w6X7A%3d%3d#q3

I learned this during my single days after making friends. You get a better satisfaction that way than just getting laid. Guys

Leave your remarks if you want to add your experience to this blog. Until next time this vboy123 loving his life while pouring his heart out there.