How to Get Married and Stay Married to The Same Person

Fight for your marriage. It takes a fighting spirit to keep your marriage together.  So stop fighting with each other and fight together to keep your marriage strong.

You have to do three things if you feel you have fallen out of love with your wife or husband before you can take the latter of this blog. 

You must first remember the day you fell in love with each other. Focus on the good in each other not the negative. 

You must forget the mistakes and the hurt that was caused by others and what you caused others to suffer.

forgive yourself and decide to move on.

 Things you must do to keep your Marriage strong:

  Keep Christ First in your marriage: How?

• by praying together

• going to church together

• praying for one another

Keep talking in the Bedroom.

•  Make love often, don’t just have sex.

• whisper sweet things to each other in bed .

Hold hands as you fall asleep.

 Don’t allow the divorce word in your house.

• Divorce is not an option in your home, so you have to work things out.  Learn to show each other respect again.

• keep your eyes on your husband and husband keep your eyes for your wife.

• (Know looking at porn is cheating on your wife.)

Ye have heard that it has been said, Thou shalt not commit adultery. 28But I say unto you, that every one who looks upon a woman to desire to have her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Matthew 5:27–28

Don’t live above your means.

• Don’t spend what you don’t have.

• focus on being debt free.

• Be a team in paying the bills.  Don’t leave one person to handle the financial burden.

Last: Take out the cable out of your house, Only use cable for computer but set up your TV to only watch DVDS.

This way you control and pick what comes into your home.  

No nasty commercials

build a lasting entertainment library that you and your children will enjoy for a lifetime.

I know that no marriage is a perfect marriage, so work on the one you got.  You will be happy when you look back and see that you made it work.