How to: Get Over an Ex

by ddawns in Relationships, April 11, 2011

Life ISN’T over, just because the relationship is.

I can promise you NOW that getting over an ex CAN be done.

I was in a relationship for about 3 years, and I was totally inlove and devoted to him. Too bad I couldn’t say the same about him. I know what it feels like, to be hurt, and inlove and to justify him, even when he is in the wrong.. it sucks, but you love him so much, you want to make it work.. everything reminds you of him, everyone reminds you of him, if you’re like me–everywhere you go, you see him..(thanks small towns…NOT) You don’t wanna do anything, you don’t wanna…OK, I’m sure you’re all saying YES~!YES!YES! and feeling like you’re worthless right now, but you’re intrigged a little.. and should be thinking “what the hell, I have nothing to lose” because you DON’T! you already lost what you NEEDED to lose.

The things you need to do include:

realize it wasn’t meant to be.. seriously girls, there are billions of men, don’t try to make the imperfect, perfect; cause then you’ll never be fully satisfied.. or with the right one!
do YOU! do things you enjoy, maybe things he didn’t like to do.. and bring music with you, and a good friend–or a pet. Keep busy so you’re not thinking of him.
be confident tell yourself everytime you look in the mirror “I am pretty, I am worthing of love, and things will get better because I am better off without him” and soon enough, you’ll realise it’s TRUE!
don’t swear off love but don’t run out looking for it again. A break between relationships is good, it helps you do you, and figure out what you’re looking for, what you need, and what you want.. it also helps Mr. Right get hte directions to you!