How to Get Over Being Dumped
by It’s a beautiful and sunny day and you have just been hit by tsunami. The waters you were once swimming in now don’t seem so friendly. You feel rejected. But all is not lost. Hold your head up and walk proudly. Here are some tips that will help you to get over being dumped.
The most difficult thing to cope with is the flood of emotions. Sometimes you just don’t know where to go from here. All your life and future plans where connected to this one person who has dumped you. This is why you need a new plan. It’s not easy, but you must keep on trying until you succeed.
Ice cream
Combination of vanilla-flavored ice cream loaded with semi-sweet chocolate chips is great. Don’t you think? But is it really going to help you? It’s okay to be sad for several days. You will have the time to pull yourself together and to realize that you need to do something. But if you continue to feel sorry for yourself for weeks and months, doing nothing but eating ice creams, it just like speeding on the wrong side of the highway. You are destined to crash in one moment. Luckily, that is not what you want. You want to learn how to get over being dumped, not to crash or to get fat by eating ice cream.
Plenty more fish in the sea
This maybe sounds as cliché, but if you want to get over being dumped, you need to realize that tomorrow is a whole new day, full of opportunities. It’s something what many people have experienced; they fell in love, get dumped, so they move on.
The beauty of diversity
You have so many things to give. It’s not all in the good looks and young age. Maybe your ex loves artists or people who have several tattoos. If you are not one of them, that doesn’t mean that you are the problem. There are millions of people out there who will be able to see all those beautiful things that you carry in your heart. Once you realize this, you are one step closer in learning how to get over being dumped.
New relationships
Start thinking about new relationships; this doesn’t mean that you should totally forget about the past ones. You just need criteria for choosing your future partners. Learn from the mistakes you made in the past. Maybe this wouldn’t even happen if you haven’t made the wrong choice. Considering new relationships will definitely help you to get over being dumped.
Friends
As with many situations, friends can be of great help. Listen to their advices. Many of them were also in this situation before, so listen what they have to say to. You are not the first person in the world that has to learn how to get over being dumped. There are many people who have been through all this and are willing to help you.
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Post CommentHelloSiti
On July 5, 2009 at 9:44 am
At the first time I saw this article’s title, I had wondered that this article was about human relationship and psychology and nothing coherency with tsunami.
sandie
On July 5, 2009 at 1:20 pm
I agree, once you get dumped the best cure is go out every night, mix and mingle until they are out of your system. It does take a while but with a bit of will power it does get easy.
FAQ
On July 15, 2009 at 2:18 am
Yeah, stupid
I have my own receipt:
Take that bottle of vodka from the shell, blow dust from it, and drink it very fast (if it is too strong to you mix it with Schweppes and you can add some ice), then start crying; you can mix it with hitting in furniture and smashing things. Tomorrow you will have such of headache that you will not even think on lost love. In case love is much deeper repeat it several times, eventually some other drunken soul will be there, and you are in new relationship.
If this don’t help you are lost case
smookie
On July 19, 2009 at 3:55 pm
How to Get Over Being Dumped
by BrandonGates, Jul 5, 2009
It’s a beautiful and sunny day and you have just been hit by tsunami. The waters you were once swimming in now don’t seem so friendly. You feel rejected. But all is not lost. Hold your head up and walk proudly. Here are some tips that will help you to get over being dumped.
The most difficult thing to cope with is the flood of emotions. Sometimes you just don’t know where to go from here. All your life and future plans where connected to this one person who has dumped you. This is why you need a new plan. It’s not easy, but you must keep on trying until you succeed.
Ice cream
Combination of vanilla-flavored ice cream loaded with semi-sweet chocolate chips is great. Don’t you think? But is it really going to help you? It’s okay to be sad for several days. You will have the time to pull yourself together and to realize that you need to do something. But if you continue to feel sorry for yourself for weeks and months, doing nothing but eating ice creams, it just like speeding on the wrong side of the highway. You are destined to crash in one moment. Luckily, that is not what you want. You want to learn how to get over being dumped, not to crash or to get fat by eating ice cream.
Plenty more fish in the sea
This maybe sounds as cliché, but if you want to get over being dumped, you need to realize that tomorrow is a whole new day, full of opportunities. It’s something what many people have experienced; they fell in love, get dumped, so they move on.
The beauty of diversity
You have so many things to give. It’s not all in the good looks and young age. Maybe your ex loves artists or people who have several tattoos. If you are not one of them, that doesn’t mean that you are the problem. There are millions of people out there who will be able to see all those beautiful things that you carry in your heart. Once you realize this, you are one step closer in learning how to get over being dumped.
New relationships
Start thinking about new relationships; this doesn’t mean that you should totally forget about the past ones. You just need criteria for choosing your future partners. Learn from the mistakes you made in the past. Maybe this wouldn’t even happen if you haven’t made the wrong choice. Considering new relationships will definitely help you to get over being dumped.
Friends
As with many situations, friends can be of great help. Listen to their advices. Many of them were also in this situation before, so listen what they have to say to. You are not the first person in the world that has to learn how to get over being dumped. There are many people who have been through all this and are willing to help you.
Gloria Gaynor » I Will Survive Lyrics
First I was afraid
I was petrified
Kept thinking I could never live
without you by my side
But I spent so many nights
thinking how you did me wrong
I grew strong
I learned how to carry on
and so you’re back
from outer space
I just walked in to find you here
with that sad look upon your face
I should have changed my stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I had known for just one second
you’d be back to bother me
Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
’cause you’re not welcome anymore
weren’t you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
you think I’d crumble
you think I’d lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
as long as i know how to love
I know I will stay alive
I’ve got all my life to live
I’ve got all my love to give
and I’ll survive
I will survive
It took all the strength I had
not to fall apart
kept trying hard to mend
the pieces of my broken heart
and I spent oh so many nights
just feeling sorry for myself
I used to cry
Now I hold my head up high
and you see me
somebody new
I’m not that chained up little person
still in love with you
and so you felt like dropping in
and just expect me to be free
now I’m saving all my loving
for someone who’s loving me
MIke
On July 20, 2009 at 2:50 am
Adultery is not always a sign of…!!! what is …getting fat,,or watching too much monday nite football…the worst outrage against ones marriage partner is adultery..the most intimate practice we have tween a guy and gal and to brush it off so easily…mmmmm..Herman Muenster once became a detective to keep an eye on his wife..a funny skit but now I wonder..I will contact Uncle Herman and see if he would be willing to return and at least read this thread who dont feel being unfaithful is so bad….naa he would be so shocked I will forget it…how many times have we seen those politicos ,after being caught with their fingers in too many pies,going up to the mike holding hands with their wives…soooo touching