How to Have a Healthy Relationship
by Solution to relationship problems.
Most of the time people get worried why their relationships do not last and even if they do, they manage the relationship instead of enjoying it. What I mean by managing is that there will always be situations of crisis in the relationship and the crisis moments always outweighs the good times. Is that so wonderful? Imagine going through life managing a relationship instead of enjoying it.
Well there are solutions to this but as it is said “Two captains can not be in the same boat” we all must have to realize that the two or more parties in a relationship must not be right at the same time. There must have to be room made for dialogue. When one’s suggestion does not fit, the other parties suggestion must have to be given a try and if it does not suite there expectation, then the next person’s suggestion will equally be tried. After trying both of the suggestions, they must be weighed and the suggestion with the better prospect will have to be taken.
There was a book I read concerning the power of synergy. Synergy means making multiple decisions work at the same time without having to loose out in any of them. In other to achieve synergy, simple principles that govern everyday life and relationship must have to be adopted. Assuming one is a supervisor in the office and he/she has an immediate task to accomplish in the office as a supervisor. He has to report to his/her boss concerning the situation at hand and equally has board meetings to attend. At the same period of time his/her mother falls sick and is hospitalized. He/She is the only one available to take care of his/her mother at that time. If he abandons his/her job and goes to take care of his/her mother in the hospital, he will definitely fall out with his boss and that might earn him a sack. In this kind of situation, synergy is adopted and this is done by understanding so that you can be understood. Yes, understanding so that you can be understood means showing the other individual that you are not selfish enough not to understand the situation at hand but by proper explanation you make the individual understand the fact that you know that this or that should be done at that time.
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