How to Impress a Girl

How to impress a girl

Now that you got her attention you may want to know how to impress her.

If you haven’t read my guide on “How to get a girls attention” you should first read it  here.

So, you made a new friend, but that’s it? Nothing new is happening? At this case you should first find out if she already has a boyfriend and if she likes you as a friend. About the boyfriend NEVER ask her that. You should find a friend of hers and ask her since that question may cause serious problems, so you should always be safe. Her friend may tell that to your girl, but that’s no problem, since its not eye to eye, of course this is not 100% safe, it can get a bit hard too, so the best way of all is to wait. She, one of her friends or anyone else could just say something like “she’s so lonely” and etc. OR you may just check on her, to see what she is doing, if she is with a boyfriend. If you only check 2-3 times, it proves nothing. If she is with a boy look for obvious sings of close friendship like holding hands and such.

Getting to know if she likes you as a friend may be a little hard to do. You may ask her while chatting but you must do it not so like this: “DO YOU LOVE ME” – that could just freak her out, you should do it like this: “Some guy told me, that I can’t make good friends” – then you should wait for her answer. If she doesn’t really answer anything like “Oh, well you are a good friend of mine” then she most likely doesn’t even like you at all – drop her. But, if she does, than you should thank her, send a smiley face or something. Tip: You may get questions like “Who told you that?” and stuff. The answer: “Oh one guy that was my friend, but I think that he’s a jerk” LIE. If you are trying to do something that you want to work out, you can’t survive without lying.

If you don’t chat on the internet at all, you should see if she likes to spend time with you, does she find free time for you at all and stuff like that.

Now, to impress her, the first golden rule is: Be yourself. Do not act like someone else, that doesn’t impress them at all. The second rule is: Do not be a jerk. If she asks for something – do it, if she doesn’t ask, you should ask her if she wants something. Be polite, no swearing and such. Also it is good to try to avoid friends that act like they are cool and such, since they may totally humiliate you and ruin mostly everything. The third rule: try to be neat. You must be clean and not sleepy, girls hate stinky guys and being sleepy to her means that she is too boring to you. Also don’t even try to talk about sex. Most of the girls aren’t perverted and hate discussing about that.

After a few weeks or a month of dating or meeting (however you call it) try to get something new, dates are not supposed to be routine. You should start hugging if you didn’t start that yet and keep doing things that could make her happy and amused.

Tip: If you would like to get some perfume on you, you can, but don’t put on too much. A slight drop may do the trick. A strong smell of perfume can make some people sick or give headaches. Compliment her on the perfume she has.

Compliments: you must compliment her at least once per date. But DO NOT compliment too much, that way she may see that you are trying too hard and may think that you only want her in bed. Try to compliment her at different times, not just one minute after you meet each other.

You must listen to her, either you like it or not. But girls are not like in the movies, they mostly talk about interesting things, not just shopping. Don’t forget important dates like her birthday, especially when there is no birthday party and you still remember to buy her a gift.

This is how you should try to impress her. I hope I helped