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How to Keep Control Over Your Woman or Girlfriend

Controlling yourself in front of your girlfriend…

Many men around the world are desperate to know how to control their women/girl friend.Generally women are not in control of the men who are quite emotional and quite sensitive.Many men who are emotional fools are been controlled by their women.

There are few things which if you follow will always make your girlfriend/women in your control….

Don’t be Emotional 

Even in your worst situation don’t get carried away in front of women/girlfriend…Women always take advantage of your emotions… Don’t be too much sensitive in front of your girlfriend.Don’t even let your girlfriend know that you are totally , blindly dependent on her.

Don’t be Too Much Caring

Generally at starting of the love and sexual relationships both men and women don’t care much of each other. But as soon as they come more closer men tends to become more caring and loving , that’s where men make mistake… They usually take more care of them and bind them in what they like and what they don’t like.This doesn’t end the love , but usually make you less attractive in front of your girlfriend.

Make her Feel that She is not the Only Girl in Your Life 

Men usually let know all of their feeling towards their women that she is the only one whom he loves… Women likes it but she feels secure about you …. This security makes you less attractive infront of your women.Always tend to make her feel that their is someone other than her in your life. This will make her insecure and will be more caring for you .Thus will be in your control ….

Try Not to Fulfill her Each Demand

When you fulfil her all the demands , she feels nice at first …. but when this becomes more , women takes it as an advantage over you.This is where she will control your thoughts and life… Try to somewhat avoid her needs , and she will care for you…

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  1. NoPsychologistBut. . .

    On April 11, 2009 at 4:19 pm

    I suppose that is great advice if you want an untrusting manipulative relationship but if you want a long-term relationship, steer clear of that crap. Three things if you want to grow a great relationship:

    1. Get a life. Take classes or read books or newspapers. Play sports. Do something that will offer some good conversation to your relationship. Maintain a little autonomy.

    2. Let her know you love her constantly and let her know you trust her. Love will beget love.

    3. Do stuff that shows her. . .occasionally kiss her in public, buy her a special dinner. Do the things lovers do!


  2. anon

    On April 17, 2009 at 11:10 pm

    The tips here, which are presented in a semiliterate way, are conducive to having an emotionally bankrupt and, like the commenter above says, untrusting, manipulative relationship. I am particularly perturbed by the mind games this article’s writer advocates. There is no excuse for treating anyone in the fashion outlined here; attempting to control someone else like this is abusive.

  3. Amit

    On May 12, 2009 at 2:08 pm

    Great article, I had some severe problems with my girlfriend this past year,
    were getting married now however, I owe my life to this book, its actually for
    getting your ex gf or wife back, but the information applies to controlling as
    well. check it out


  4. nas014

    On June 8, 2009 at 6:09 am

    Very good article. All man should know about this. In most cases , man becomes slave of their wife or girlfriend. Man make mistakes through pampering her & fulfill all of her wish.
    Man need to take control over them. Today, feminist peoples are claiming that womens are superior than man & man should lead that life what their wife or girlfriend want him to do. At first, we man need to be manly. Today, womenfolk wants to marry those man who don’t have enough courage to raise his voice against them, less confident,less manly,coward,obey them like a dog.
    I have a girlfriend . Sometimes she comes to my house when i am alone. I gave her lots of gifts. In return, i demand something from her. Sometimes, she shows me her 38 sized big, round & sharp breast & beautiful ass to satisfy me. She feels no shame in it.
    we friends discuss about womens breast & ass , girls also join with us. They don’t mind in it. Because they know one day they will have to submit them to their man & satisfy them.
    I will suggest all the man that make the women feel, they are not the superiors though they claim it obstinately. There is nothing to fear women. Take control over women, nullify their obstinacy, make them do whatever you like to watch e.g stripping, sexy dancing.
    If your girlfriend or wife don’t obey orders, give her punishment e.g touching ear, murga, murga parade,nake khot, nude parade. The more you pampers them, the more they will climb on your head. So control them before it’s too late.

  5. lucedelcielo

    On June 13, 2009 at 12:29 pm

    That is the worst advice ever.

    I can’t even begin to explain why. It’s just disgusting. My husband treats me like a princess and I treat him like a king. That’s how it should be – mutual respect, love and adoration. Anything less is just immature and evil.

  6. anon

    On June 22, 2009 at 12:11 am

    Is this a joke?

    If it is, then it must be hilarious to those aware the joke. But to those unaware of its intended nature, this article is incredibly offensive.
    I didn’t believe there could actually be two illiterate bastard monkeys who shared such a skewed viewpoint and have the capability to type, but apparently the author and nas014 have proven me wrong.My only hope is that the nas014 and jontymagicman are one and the same. Based on their similar prose it is a definite possibility.

    Its animals like you who make all men look bad.

  7. Susan B Anna

    On August 1, 2009 at 2:56 pm

    I have read some disturbing things but none as disturbing as this fools. It can only make me wonder what type of a childhood this guy endured to have such low regard to the woman population. I would like to think like Anon that these two guys nas014 and jontymagicman are one in the same, because I too saw the similarity in their thinking and writing.

    You are definitely a weirdo for writing this, and thinking you will find too many to share your views is plain scary. Thank goodness we women know there are men out there well deserving of a true meaningful relationship, and too bad you never will be.

  8. karinna

    On August 6, 2009 at 7:52 am

    So how is your lovelife? I can only presume as awful as your ideas.

  9. Aaron Barney

    On January 31, 2010 at 8:34 am

    Maybe they’re from a different country, hence the weird english and so they have a different cultural background so that they look at women this way? I’m so naive i read the first part and was kind of scared because it didn’t seem loving at all, then I was reassured to read posts from you guys so I knew I wasn’t crazy for wanting mutual respect. I can agreee a little bit to keep your girl in line if she tries to cross it, but my ideal relationship would be a very loving and respectful one. most of the time.

  10. Aaron

    On January 31, 2010 at 8:35 am

    This article was basically telling me to be exactly the opposite of what I am haha and it scared me.

  11. Mr. Lover Boy

    On March 12, 2010 at 7:55 am

    Most of you, that are criticizing this article have never had to deal with the problem of a loose and uncontrollable spouse. Some people are brought up to only care about their own feelings and we are forced to resort to such methods in order to keep them. Some may ask; why don’t you just get out of the relationship? Well, I would say that I love the girl so much that I have made a decision to stay with her regardless. These methods help me to get the admiration and attention that I deserve but would otherwise never get from her. She remotely and hardly cares about my feelings because she is not raised that way. My loving and caring nature doesn’t help me much with such a spouse; therefore these methods are the only way of saving the relationship.

  12. tanya

    On March 13, 2010 at 3:44 pm

    I agree….girls r like this(even i am)

  13. Josh

    On June 2, 2010 at 3:32 pm

    yes mutaul love is great but this is the way to get it. People, more over girls, dont/wont give you the respect or love you need if you dont do this in most cases!

  14. Matt

    On September 18, 2010 at 1:19 am

    The only thing I can say is the context of the writing and it’s deliverance is suitable to what the title describes. If you read the title and expected how to lead a mutually respected relationship, you came to the wrong place. The title clearly states, “HOW TO KEEP CONTROL OVER YOUR WOMAN OR GIRLFRIEND.” If you don’t like the title, don’t read the damn article.

  15. Concerned Citizen

    On October 1, 2010 at 5:00 pm

    Just remember to lead YOUR life Brothers. Women come and go (some try to hang on longer than others), and THAT is the way to a happy life.

    Men do not NEED a consistent woman around. Actually, men prefer a variety of women to be passing through their doors. There is nothing wrong with that, and in fact is perfectly healthy. Women just don’t understand that, since women think differently then men.

    So women, just remember, when you start demanding more and more from your man, in the back of his mind he is thinking, if I take the car now, I could be across town in 20 minutes banging that redhead I met at the shop today instead of listening to this old hag and dealing with her crap.

    Women forget this too often. Men choose to be with you, but they can choose NOT to be with you too, so don’t give him any more reasons to head for the door.

    And women, don’t forget the old saying:

    Happy Man = Happy Clan

  16. raja

    On November 11, 2010 at 10:14 am

    Most of you, that are criticizing this article have never had to deal with the problem of a loose and uncontrollable spouse. Some people are brought up to only care about their own feelings and we are forced to resort to such methods in order to keep them.

    It is the golden comment.

  17. Dave

    On December 19, 2010 at 2:14 am

    Ok so the guys comment was a little extreme side but that\’s the basic way to keep or to get yourself a woman, yes a guy showering you with gifts and telling you nice things is good for a little while then it gets boring after that, you should let your woman know that your in hi demand by other women (not by telling them) and that if the relationship was to end you would be able to move on easy! Woman want a man to be a man(not an asshole) so don\’t get sucked in to their controlling games rise above it

    1 don\’t pamper to much maybe once a month
    2 have your own thing that you do with the lads blow it off for your woman maybe once every 6 months but make sure you get something out of it
    3 talk to other women like it\’s nothing when your out with your woman even call your girlfriend over while your talking to her and introduce them to eachother
    4 if your wan tries to make an issue out any of the above stop it as soon as it starts by keeping calm and telling her the way it is and leave it at that don\’t get sucked in to an argument and give her control

  18. sach

    On February 17, 2011 at 8:46 am

    Most gals get mad after reading this article cuz these techniques work…most women like to have control over the relationship..but wen they hear ppl discussing these techniques, they get pissed…

    by being a WUSS that is clingy to your woman, fulfilling all her desires, saying YES to everything she says, being her puppy dog, being too emotional and needy may seem nice…but its counter intuitive..
    biologically the man is the “surviver” or the “aggressor”…the woman is the “replicator”….
    so be a man…this doesn’t mean treat your woman bad…it means that DO NOT BE A WUSS…
    in a relationship SHE doesn’t come first..her desires doesn’t come first….you both come first….both of your desires come first….but the man should be the one to take control of the “balance of power” in a relationship…

  19. Touch

    On February 25, 2011 at 5:58 am

    Gd information I can see why some females would not want this powerful information out

  20. Debrizzz

    On April 16, 2011 at 1:33 pm

    OMG ..the worst article I ever read…I would like to share a quote from the movie \’The ghosts of girlfriends past\’ …\”Someone once told me that the power in all relationships lies with whoever cares less, and he was right. But power isn\’t happiness, and I think that maybe happiness comes from caring more about people rather than less… \”

    BTW you think your woman/girl can\’t use these tricks on you? :D ..and whoever resorts to such manipulation is not in love for sure and should be ready to spend his/her life alone and spare the other person a life full of lies, indifference and fake love..

    P.S. Ask the writer about his \’love\’ life..dead sure it must be disastrous …and all the supporters commenting here are sounding like such psychos (not surprisingly …lol)

  21. Debrizzz

    On April 16, 2011 at 1:43 pm

    @sach and all the other psychos liking this article

    you\’re such a WUSS man…not man enough I\’m sure to love a woman just the way she is….and \”men should take control of the balance of power in a relationship\” WTF …by the way no woman wants to try and control a man …she just wants to love and be loved…is it too hard for your thick brain to get …Guess all you have is \’p*n*s that ain\’t working too good for you …:D

    Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition. ~Timothy Leary

    Because I am a woman, I must make unusual efforts to succeed. If I fail, no one will say, \”She doesn\’t have what it takes.\” They will say, \”Women don\’t have what it takes.\” ~Clare Boothe Luce

    I myself have never been able to find out precisely what feminism is: I only know that people call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a door mat or a prostitute. ~Rebecca West, \”Mr Chesterton in Hysterics: A Study in Prejudice,\” The Clarion, 14 Nov 1913, reprinted in The Young Rebecca, 1982

    Women have been taught that, for us, the earth is flat, and that if we venture out, we will fall off the edge. ~Author Unknown

    The emotional, sexual, and psychological stereotyping of females begins when the doctor says, \”It\’s a girl.\” ~Shirley Chisholm

  22. g

    On July 16, 2011 at 8:57 pm

    At times you need to do this, at times you need not. It depends on what\’s the situation. Don\’t over-do it.

  23. widow

    On March 21, 2012 at 5:47 pm

    This is the best article Ive ever read… and its the plain out truth.

    here is some more good advice… have lots of women in your life..
    yes have 4 or 5 close pretty single girlfriends that you spend lots of time with…

    that’s the first mistake we make in a relationship we end up forsaking our friends,, our female friends. because our wives get jelious..

    This will teach her that you sir are something to cherish and appreciate.

    not just something to use , lock away and try and control…

    and if she leaves…. you’ve got it covered..

    don’t just be a man,, be a force of nature.

  24. troy the toy

    On March 21, 2012 at 6:00 pm

    To Debrizz

    I truly enjoyed your feminist incite on this particular article ,, and in depth way you looked into the character of those of us who enjoyed it….

    now go make me a frigging sandwich..

    iron my shirt…

  25. Joanne

    On May 7, 2012 at 2:26 pm

    Oh dear. Terrible advice. I have just left a man I loved due to him doing this. I’m aware he was insecure but honestly – how would you feel if you were continuously emotionally neglected and made to feel invalid and replaceable? Yep, after several chances to have a loving and open relationship I got fed up with the game playing and manipulation. Being emotionally starved is one sure fire way to kill of a woman’s love and respect for you.

  26. mohamed

    On November 15, 2012 at 5:07 am


  27. Taha

    On March 3, 2013 at 7:52 am

    hes a 100% right people may choose to dis him but i passed through shit that proves this advice.

  28. jack

    On March 3, 2013 at 7:54 am

    they say we’re assholes but they always comeback

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