How to Keep Your Marriage Going

This is an interested topic! Here are some tips on how to keep your marriage going for years. So I decided to interview some couples and this is some of my answers that I got. 

John and Marry was my first couple they have been married for 30 years their secret was you must be able to forgive and forget, communication is the key, show respect to each other, give each other nick names like butter cup or cupcake it works for us big time lol lol. Ok my other couple

 Mr. and Mrs. Williams their secret was;  A marriage is based upon thrust. It is what holds a marriage together, and spending quality time each other even if it’s just one day out of the week. Avoid keeping secrets from each other say “I love you” to each other every chance you get and not only in the bedroom. Lol lol if you are going to be staying at the office later than usual call and let you partner know what up and that will prevent them from thinking otherwise.

Well my next couple was David and Donna Percy they told me that the most important thing that kept their marriage going is to give each other a little surprise every now and then, like bring home a bunch of flowers not only on her/his birthday but any time you happen to have a extra money in your pocket and buy something that you know your partner loves.  Leave love notes around the house ohhh yes it does work it shows that you appreciate each other. When you love a person and that person doesn’t love you back the same way that marriage will never work both partners must feel the same about each other.

Personally my view of keeping the marriage going is good communication, must be able to talk to each other about anything. Marriage is a serious commitment, which each partner should have considered before making that big step, in every relationship there is always going to be some ups and down. Make sure that the person that you married feels the same way about you, this can’t work one way it goes both ways. I don’t think you should get married because (it was love at first shight)or because of good sex, but the main thing is get to know each other before making a decision like that. I believe that getting married at a young age is heading for disaster. Studies has shown that most partners that got married at a very young age end up in devourse. Taking marriage councling classes does help.  You must realize that you will be spending the rest of your life with each other. To make a commitment like that, it must be base entirely upon LOVE. What do you think?