How to Know Someone Using a Single Question
One question that can help differentiate between a friend and foe.
In today’s world, it is very important to know someone’s character well in advance as mistakes have no room in this world. The life of today is so fast that one small mistake can land up person many ladders down his career.
So, to prevent this possibility it is very important that we know the character of person well in advance.
There are two options to know person:
- Go by reference i.e. ask someone else to know the behavior of the target person. But, this can be quite risky.
- The other option to assess the person is by getting yourself involved with him/her. But, then who has the time to assess each and every person. Since, you need minimum 2-3 meeting to completely understand the person.
So, keeping all the above problems in mind, I devised a method in which one can know the character of a person by simply asking one question. This method might not be novel. But, there was no one to tell me this method and I developed this method on the basis of my experience.
The procedure you have to follow is as follows:
First give them the following or similar situation.
Suppose you are more intelligent than your friend and always score more than your friend. Now, you both appear for some very crucial exam (like board exam) and he scores far better than you.
Then, which of the following question will you ask yourself:
- How could he reach there?
- How could I reach there?
Now, if person answers the first option then that means that the person is jealous. He is not competing in good spirit. He cannot become a good friend. Since, he is busier in shortening the line of his friend rather than elongating his own line.
But, if person chooses the second option then it implies that he competitive and is not jealous. This means that the person will aim higher in his life and will compete in true spirit. He is the person who will carry you along with him when he reaches top.
So, now, I have given my method. Now, it’s up to you of how you make use of this method.
For more related and much better articles, you can refer following links:
1) Characteristics of Good People: My best article. Must read article for everyone. It tells the most important ways of finding that whether a person is good or bad since all that glitters is not gold.
2) Why People Don’t Help?: A very similar topic but explains this phenomenon in lot more detail. Have you ever thought what wrong with people nowadays, why they don’t want to help others? Check out the main reasons behind these problems
3) Why Good People Always Suffer: Why is it that all of God’s havoc is borne by good people? A mentality which is normally seen among good people need to be changed for good. Here, I give some very strong reasons of why to change this attitude.
4) Literate vs Illiterate: Who is more intelligent and who is more beneficial for society. This article answers all such and similar questions.
5) How to Make Your Problems Easy?: A very simple but an effective way of reducing your problem is told here. To make this idea easier to understand, I have made it very funny so you won’t be bored while reading.
6) How to Make an Enemy Your Friend: A must article for everyone. It tells the important way to solve the problem of generating enemies, especially if you are a good person.
7) Who is More Dangerous?: What will you do when you have to choose between a good person and bad person? Sometimes the truth is not what it appears to be.
How It Feels When You are Cheated?: A situation which is a nightmare for all people. It tells a way to come over with such a trauma.
9) Are Scholars Really Scholars? : The question which always haunt an intelligent student with bad luck, a reason why some times good people turn bad.
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