How to Make Him or Her Stay

Have you ever wondered why a lot of people tend to end a relationship?

This usually happens nowadays and most people seem to have some common mistakes in handling their relationship. That is why most of them try to let go of that very special love. And what’s even worst, by the time they realize their mistakes, it’s already too late for them to save the relationship.

In order for us to know the things we can do to make our partner stay is to know first the reasons why they tend not to stay.

These are the common reasons why most of us fall out of love or have a tendency to end up relationships:

• Cheating/Unfaithfulness
• Not spending enough time together
• Forgetting an important occasion like anniversaries, birthday and holidays
• Lack of communication and attention
• Not respecting one’s opinion and decision
• Failure to reciprocate one’s love, trust and effort

Cheating is the worst destroyer of relationships. It wounds up your partners heart deeply and sometimes can leave a scar. Sometimes, men reason out that they cheated because they were just seduced. It can be true but no matter what the seduction may be, if you really love your girl, you won’t do it. Though men are the best cheaters of all time, have you girls ever wonder why they cheat? Girls actually have some mistakes too. Sometimes men cheat because their partner neglects them. Men need the attention of his girl. They wanted girls to make them feel loved and they want girls to be sweet to them always. Lack of these things can trigger men to cheat. So girls, try to always make your man feel the warmth of your love. Extra sweetness is a big factor too. Make sure you have lots of them. Boys, try to be thankful for the love your girl is giving and never forget to give your love back in return.

 Not spending enough time to your partner weakens your attachment to one another. The more you are not present in your partner’s life, especially in important events, the more chances for you to lose that person. Giving enough time to one another makes both of you feel secured. It does not only give you an assurance that your partner does not see someone else, but also it will make both of you create beautiful memories and experiences in your relationship. These memories will strengthen your feelings toward each other. But don’t overdo this. Sometimes, being with each other all the time can make a relationship boring and dull. You or your partner may find it very usual and natural being together. You might lose the tingling feeling and excitement, so sometimes better give yourselves time to miss one another. So remember, give enough time but not too much.