How to Make Him or Her Stay

If you are forgetful like me, try to list down important events/occasions that has a meaning to you and to your partner. You can also make some reminders to your cell phone or organizer just for you not to forget special days like your partner’s birthday, anniversary or even holidays. Greetings can also be a big factor in a relationship. It makes your partner realize that you value and cherish special moments and significant events in your relationship.

Lack of communication and attention especially in times of problems and conflicts can create a bigger problem to a relationship. Most of the problems in a relationship can be avoided if only both know how to listen and pay attention to one another. This can alert you for potential problems that may arise and help you avoid them since most of those problems came from lack of communication and time spent with each other. Be open to one another and be honest.

It is always a big deal for someone to be respected. In a relationship, decisions and opinions should be respected. Listen to what your partner has to say before you make a negative comment. Support his or her decision if it’s best for the both of you. Decisions should be made with mutual consent. Don’t treat your partner as your subordinate. Treat yourselves equally because you are partners, and partners have equal rights.

Failure to reciprocate one’s love, effort, sweetness and care is one of the main reasons why most people cheat. They tend to look for someone else who can make them feel the love, care and sweetness they are longing to feel that could have been from you. Not being expressive is a big mistake. All of us always wanted the feeling of being loved and cared by the person we love. If you can’t show it to your partner, how will your partner show it to you? If you want to keep your partner, show him/her what you got and give him/her your best. That way, cheating will not be possible knowing your partner doesn’t need anybody else but you alone.