How to Make Love to a Woman

1. They should think of pleasing the woman first before they please themselves because it takes a woman a little longer to get to their peak. Their private parts are not too different than a man’s and think about how you would like a woman to treat you and reciprocate.
2. Foreplay is really important to them.  Foreplay should not always take place in bed.  Foreplay can take place also while they are having dinner with friends just by rubbing their leg or caressing their neck or kissing their neck.  Foreplay is not always sexual to women and men should know that the other kinds of foreplay are really what get women excited.
3. Whispers in the ears while out before they get home is truly very exciting.  So guys begin whispering soft sexual delightful things.  Not vulgar but for example:  “I can’t wait to get you home to touch your whole body”.  Trust me this works.
4. Sensual stares/looks.  Oddly enough some women have told me that when their man looks at them with that sensual look from across the room, like they are wanted, like they are sexy, like they are hungry is a real turn on. 
5. A man’s smell is really important.  They like a man to smell clean, fresh not always full of cologne.
6. Sexy texts or voice messages is a turn on and gets a women thinking while they are away from you and this gets their bodies ready for action when they get home.
7. If married with kids – the women say because they have so much on their plate, work, kids, cooking etc.  They feel it is truly sexy if a man takes charge, has dinner ready, sends the kids to a baby sitter and when she got home, there was soft music, food done and quiet.  This releases their stress and tension and lets them focus on you.  So guys (husbands) take notice, if you want some action from your wife, some focus time – take charge and make it happen.
8. Women can’t read minds, sometimes men complain to their wives about what they wear, their hair etc. but never communicate exactly what they want from their women.  So women are saying “Men need to communicate with us on what they want from us – we are not mind readers.  If you want spike heels, garters, sexy outfits etc., you need to say what you want.”
9. Sex should not always take place in bed and at home.  Make it different.  While in a car, pool, vacation, hot tub, in front of the fireplace or even on the kitchen floor.  Women want their men to be hungry for them no matter what the location.
10. Most important, the man’s emotions have to be real.  If the woman feels it’s only about sex, it’s a turn off.  It has to be important to them.  It has to be done with love and feelings.  Otherwise, they just feel its just exercise.

So there you have it, opinions from women ages 18 – 50.