How to Make your Love Life Work

Imagine lying in this field of Lilly’s with that someone special in your life! Wonderful huh! Only one problem, most of us can imagine this, but we never do things like it. We hustle and bustle on about our days without ever giving a second thought as to what this world really holds for us. We worry about our bills, our children, our boss, and our housework, but do we let ourselves be free to enjoy the beauty of the earth God has created for us? Most of us don’t. This is very important in a marriage or a romantic venture. We need to do more things that are free, because if we realize it or not, the free things are usually more meaningful. Tell me ladies, when is the last time your man took the time to go out and pick you a free fresh bouquet of flowers? The time and thought put into this simple task means so much more than a flower shop bringing them to you or a pre-arranged bouquet at the store.  What if he packed a picnic and took you to the river or the park instead of meeting you at that busy pub somewhere or the restaurant up the street.

Then you would have time to take off your shoes and feel the grass between your toes! Or maybe even have a little make out session! No matter if your married 20 years or if you’ve only been together a day these are definitely worth a try, and talk about romance!  We all have had that special candle light dinner at home with the one we love right? Well lets put a spin on that! Next time go out in your yard or out on the balcony and try it. This will spark a newness that you may have not felt in awhile.  For most of us life with only one sexual partner can get pretty boring, but when you find creative ways to sizzle it up a little, we often remember what it is about that person to begin with that stole our heart.  I personally counsel many family, friends, and people who are referred to me each day over the phone and thru chat and e-mail on how to make this lifetime commitment work for them, while enabling them to be themselves and still have everything they want out of their love life. I can’t lie this is not always an easy task, no doubt about it some of these people are depressed and on the brink of self destruction before they ever get to me, but it’s rewarding to see them through!