How to Save a Dying or Troubled Relationship

1. First of all, decide whether it is worth it or not staying with the person. Sometimes, relationships may happen to be too far gone to save, therefore, take some time to really think about it. Find out the real cause of the break up. Who’s fault is it? If at the end of the day, you still think that the relationship is worth it, then go all out to save it.

2. Find the problem, as it is hard to fix a relationship when you don’t know what went wrong. Talk to your partner to see if they are willing to try a problem solving method. If he/she is willing, take some time out of your day where you two can do it.

3. Share your thoughts with your partner, that is always important. Remember that these thoughts should not be shared in an angry or argumentative way. Hold each other’s hand while sharing your thoughts or cuddle up together. It may feel awkward after a fight, but it can help a lot.

4. Remmber to listen when your partner is talking, don’t interrupt them to defend yourself. Remember that if they said something bad about the relationship, it is because it is truly hurting or worrying them. It is important to respect your partner, don’t interrupt.

5. Take action and try to identify some of the more important problems you two have together to fix it.

6. Maintain your progress, remember to apologize for hurting each other’s feeling. Love each other, and mean it when you say it.