How to Seduce a Woman Part Two

Are you still at the stage of deciding which type of woman to seduce?  Where you are not sure if you want a long term thing, a casual sex thing,  a casual friendship thing or a one off?  You need to know this before you can go any further. So decide this and then we move on….

You want a long term thing…. a long term serious thing means a lot more work but with far greater rewards.  And you should pick a different sort of woman for this.  Some women like casual sex and changing partners all the time and the sort of woman who likes that is not good enough or suitable for a long term thing.  The last thing you want is to be with a woman who flirts with other men and cheats on you with other men, or who tires of being in a long term thing and wants to go off because she cannot do long term relationships.  Pick someone who is serious, grown up and mature for a long term thing.  But make sure she is also desirable, good company and intelligent, otherwise the sex will be no good and the company no good and then you may end up with someone who wants a long term thing with you but where you do not want it with her.  If you are contemplating marriage or living with the person or having a child with them then you need someone who has her head screwed on right, not just who is good looking and sexy.

You want a casual sex thing… find so long as the woman wants this too… some men pretend to be single or separated or divorced in an effort to get a woman to say yes… when they actually have a wife at home or a girlfriend they see a lot. This is wrong and if it backfires on you you deserve it.  Telling lies to get sex is out of order.  You deserve someone who wants you for you and whatever your situation is, not someone you have to con into it.  You also should not be looking for a long term thing if you are married or with a girlfriend. It is not fair to your relationship, your woman or the new woman.  The odds are that you end up losing both of them and with lots of problems inbetween.   For a casual thing it is not important to find someone serious, but you need someone who is honest, reliable and fun.    Make allowances for the fact that YOU or SHE might change your mind later and end up wanting more out of this.  Do not be angry with her if she changes her mind, its human nature and a compliment to you that she wants more with you.  But it would be wise to tell her at the start what is what, so that if she asks for more and you do not want to give more you can remind her of the agreement, otherwise she might try to argue that you should change your mind too just because it suits her.