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How to Show Your Man That You Love Him

Sometimes men think saying the words "I love you" are just words. Men tend to look at actions more than words. This is a list of 20 ways to show your man that you love him without ever saying it.

The meaning of “I Love You” goes much further than just a few simple words. Sometimes actions speak louder than words. Love comes with many feelings that are from our inner self. It is emotions and what we are capable of giving, that shows the true meaning of love. I am not talking about it from a financial way either. Money cannot buy true love. Below is a list of just 20 ways to show your man that you love him without ever saying it.

  1. Tell him that you are proud of him and appreciate all that he is doing or done.
  2. Respect him, his thoughts and opinions. Everyone is different.
  3. Get over it if he’s wrong about something. He’s only human and will learn from his mistakes. Agree sometimes.
  4. Be affectionate. Hold his hand. Sit by him. Even in public. Men like to be petted and adored.
  5. Write a note saying that you love him and put it in his pocket for him to find later.
  6. Make him a cup of coffee in the morning and bring it to him.
  7. Surprise him with breakfast if it’s not a normal routine.
  8. Tell him that you need him and thankful for having him in your life.
  9. Give him a meaningful hug and kiss as soon as he gets home from work.
  10. Take a shower with him and bathe him slowly. You can’t show intimacy if you are rushing.
  11. Fix his plate when supper is ready and maybe light a candle or two.
  12. Share watching his favorite movie. Even if you don’t like it.
  13. Play a song and dedicate it to him.
  14. Cook his favorite meal.
  15. Show him that you care. Listen to him and give him the attention that he deserves. Ask him if he’s alright.
  16. Have some patience when your man is stressing out. Just let him work it out. It will soon pass.
  17. Reassure him that everything is going to be fine when things are looking down a bit.
  18. Talk good about him in front of others when he is around you.
  19. Refrain from saying “I WANT” everyday. Men are not money making machines. They work hard. Ask him what does he want or need.
  20. Most of all, show him that he can count on you and that you will always be there for him.

The above list is just to name a few and all are very easy to do. If you love your man truly, this will come natural. Remember that men are different than woman when it comes to showing some love but we all have feelings that are the same.

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  1. goodselfme

    On October 2, 2008 at 11:55 am


    Wow!!! you have the luckiest man on earth with all the goodness sited here in a wonderful write! I bet you do more than these too.Great points to use in a healthy relationship. Thank you!

  2. Michelle

    On October 3, 2008 at 10:09 am


    After reading this I feel very strongly about how my realtionship is in trouble. I have never looked deeply how a man really feels and your points are right on and I was so wrong I will take the steps that you wrote about and put them to use. Thanks for your writing never know what you are going to come across that really touches you.

  3. noorullah_hamidi@yahoo.com

    On October 8, 2008 at 2:43 am


    Be honest with your freinds .

  4. william rodriguez II

    On October 10, 2008 at 1:00 am


    Very nice article, you’re husband is very lucky to have a wife like you.God bless.

  5. Brian Daniel Stankich

    On October 17, 2008 at 9:43 pm


    Carolyn, you are NAILING these lists! My favorites: 1 2 4 5 7 9 14 16 (well a few others too but I’m too shy to list them).

  6. BABY

    On October 18, 2008 at 12:33 am


    I REALLY LOVE MY MAN AND HOPE ALL YOUR TIPS ABOVE WILL IMPROME ME THERE AND THERE….THANX DEAR ..U REALLY NICE,god blss u..

  7. JUST ME =)

    On December 1, 2008 at 5:53 pm


    WOW, COULDN’T HAVE SAID IT BETER MY SELF! YOU’RE AMAZING :]

  8. stowers

    On December 27, 2008 at 2:31 pm


    I LOVE MY BABY SO MUCH SOMETIMES I THINK HE DON’T FEEL LIKE I DO BUT WITH THE ADVICE FROM EVERYONE ABOVE I CAN FINALLY SEE HE KNOW I CARE. SO THANKS ALOT

  9. willie ds girl

    On January 3, 2009 at 3:42 pm


    IF THIS IS WHAT A MAN THINKS IS LOVE THAN MY MAN MUST KNOW I LOVE HIM I TAKE CARE OF HIM … I THINK AND I KNOW I LOVE HIM TO DEATH I LOVE \’WILLIE D \’

  10. Robin

    On January 21, 2009 at 8:18 pm


    I do all of this for my man already!! lol ofcourse im just looking at this stuff cause im crazy bored right now why my man play’s his video games!

  11. Lisa

    On March 16, 2009 at 1:26 am


    I like the ideas. It help women a lot in building healthy relationship with the loved one

  12. happitemmy

    On May 12, 2009 at 3:28 am


    I love my man dearly and deeply, i do so much to make a happy maybe i am not doing enough already but then i get so confused about a whole lot and i need to talk to someone about it urgently.

    save a girl pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

  13. Kinky

    On June 4, 2009 at 1:41 am


    I do everything in my power to show my man that i love him but no matter what i do he doesn’t give me the appreciation that i need, he doesnt give me the love that i deserve. i dont know what to do anymore, i have ran out of ideas.

  14. farawaysis

    On June 10, 2009 at 11:19 am


    Communication is the key. It is a must in all realtionships. Treat others the way that you would like to be treated. If you are not getting the love returned, something is stopping your man. Ask yourself what can it be? Take yourself out of the box and look deeply. By no means this article is suggesting be a slave. It is written to help others that cannot fill the gaps of understanding their man. Men are just as complicated as women but we all have the ability to love.

  15. Jennifer

    On June 12, 2009 at 12:32 pm


    You can not do any acts of kindness/love with your spouse or anyone in your life with the expectation of gratitude, because that takes away from doing it from the heart. If you give and give, there will come a day that you just stop and move on. When looking back you will know that person wasn\’t \”the one\”, but to truly love you have to give without expectations.

  16. maricel

    On July 18, 2009 at 9:40 am


    yah right!! its just that sometimes i become moody to the point that i forget how he feels too…i need lots of fixin..

  17. Bre Bay

    On August 15, 2009 at 4:14 pm


    Wow Thats just pretty much what it takes i show my man this all the time thanks for helping me see a little clearer god bless u

  18. Drake Harlem

    On August 28, 2009 at 2:43 pm


    My wife does most of the things on that list and we have a strong and healthy marriage. Just a few of these things can make all the difference in the world in a relationship.

  19. in the flesh

    On December 26, 2009 at 5:12 pm


    this seems a little old fashioned to me. there are a few things about cooking there, and making him coffee in the morning. perhaps a bit unfair unless he does the same to his woman. kiss when he comes home from a hard days work? working hard for his money so dont ask for too much? it might be the woman who goes out and work. i might be looking at this the wrong way but – tell him you need him? you really dont have to be dependant on your man to be in love

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