How to Talk to Women

Ask questions and listen to the answers. That is, essentially, how one makes conversation. It makes a woman feel good to think that you care what she is saying. She will be listening and talking longer if you actually do. If you have to pretend, then you might want to try a different girl, one who doesn’t make you want to think about something else.

Make her laugh. A joke that is actually funny will go a long way in starting a conversation. However, if you know that you can’t tell a joke, for the love of liquor DON’T! You won’t even make it to the punch line. Also, if your joke is locker room humor and something your would tell your buddies, but not your sister, you might save it for later. Much later.

Don’t say things that might seem impressive to you, but can be seen as showing off or arrogance. You might be an Olympic swimmer, but she may find that an odd thing to bring up right off the bat. Also, things like “Hi! My name is Angus. I once ate a cat!” might not be something you want to bring up with someone you just met, and really, you might want to keep it to yourself until the third date. Or the third month. Or just keep it to yourself.

Talk about the immediate environment. Is there a game on the TV? Talk about the teams or the sport (yes, some women like sports.) What music is playing? Is the bar tender cool? How do you cook a rutabaga? (That one is for the market.) Once the ball gets rolling you can move on to seeing her again. But let the ball roll for a bit.

Getting a phone number. You might not be looking just to “hook-up” for the night. You might actually want to get to know the girl. Maybe even have a person of the opposite(or some) sex in your life who isn’t your Mom. However, don’t start the conversation with ‘Can I have your number?’. Don’t make it the second sentence either. Or the third. You get there when you get there. If you do a good job with the conversation she will give you the number without you even having to ask. However, if she gets up to leave before you get it, ask! What have you got to lose? And guess what? You can also give her your number! Crazy, I know, but very doable. If there is no number forth coming, but you still want to hang out, offer to meet her for coffee the following day, or someplace for lunch. You might be surprised by the response.

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