If you receive a call from your significant other more then once a week,

Telling you not to wait up because there is a late night meeting and it
Is mandatory that he/or she attend the meeting.

If you were stood up for dinner and drinks at your favorite restaurant

Three or more times in one month because he/or she simply forgot.

If he/or she have not been coming home for dinner lately, the excuse being

He/or she had a late lunch.

If he/or she is starting to get upset with you calling his/or her office, asking

What time did he/or she leave work?

If he/or she cannot be reached by cell phone more than twice a week, the

Reason being he/or she must have been in a no service zone.

For the first time he/or she forgot your wedding anniversary, the excuse being

He/or she was preoccupied.

If he/or she is spending less and less time with you and the children
If he/or she is going out of town for a week to attend a business seminar, but

Forgot to give you his/or her itinerary, you call his/or her office, only
To find out that he/or she is on vacation leave for a week.

If you find hidden receipts for some big ticket items you know

Absolutely nothing about.

You have been trying to get him/or her to change his/or her physical

Appearance for years and now that he/or she has, you do not quite
Know what to make of this sudden change.

If he/or she tells you out of the clear blue, there is nothing wrong,

But he/or she just need his/or her own space right now.

Author’s note: If it acts like a cheater, talks like a cheater and looks like a cheater,
That’s because he/or she is a cheater