How to Tell If You’re in a Bad Relationship or You’re Bad at RelationshipS

There’s no easy way to see it but you do sense either one. I’ve been in bad relationships before and at the same time I was bad at it as well.

Which makes sense when you think about it. If you are bad in relationships then great guess is that you are IN a bad relationship.

When you grow a liking for someone you have all these butterfly feelings, etc. Even elbows brushing against one another is a tingle to your nose. This is because you aren’t comfortable with the person so all these sparks are flying from here and there. It’s a little like brushing elbows with a friend or relative, you are comfortable around them so with flesh contacts you surely just say “oh, excuse me” but with someone you have feelings for could be like magic, like a cow just jump over the moon and you tell yourself “man, i could really live a fairy tale with this person”. Once you get together and begins to be more and more comfortable you soon loosen up and what felt like explosions now feel as a regular thing. That’s one bad thing, you must keep things interesting ALWAYS. Doing the same thing everyday might put out the flames between the two of you. Once that happens, things soon unfolds, irritatable actions, slacking on dates out, and what not.

Of course bad relationships and being bad IN relationships aren’t all about cheating – it’s even more about how you treat the person. You could have the most trusthworthy guy who promises you to never cheat and hurt you but did he promise to never delay on dinner dates, slack on spending time with you, sleeping through the movie, or sit around and watch you bickering on and on about how you would like to go out once in awhile. Not seeing eye to eye is frustrating but not being able to talk about it and letting it slip because it’s less stress, isn’t a great deal either. You know it’s bad when there’s no communication after the screaming, no hugs and kisses (just because), no greetings, no time for one another, no one will compromise their time schedule for one on one, etc.

Basically, you’re IN something bad when you lack the simple things to keep a relationship strong. If you lacking them, you’re bad IN the relationship and therefore, you’re IN a bad relationship.