How to Treat a Girl: Seven Golden Rules for Relationships

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1. Show her you’re impressed by her. Give her the occasional compliment. Smile at her and make eye contact. Don’t give her the impression that you’re disgusted by the sight of her.
2. Show her you care about her. Listen to her, show you understand her opinions. Always be aware and vigilant of how she’s feeling. Don’t give her the impression that you have no interest in her well-being.
3. Show her you want her company. Whether you’re for romantic dates or not, make sure she knows you want to spend time with her. If you are with her, let her know if you’re enjoying yourself, and if not, let her know it’s not her fault. Don’t give her the impression that spending time with her is a chore and not a pleasure.
4. Show her you’re attracted to her. Give her lots of hugs and squeezes, and the occasional light touch: girls are extremely sensitive to contact as a social tool. You don’t have to move fast, but show her you are moving. Don’t give her the impression that you are physically apathetic to her.
5. Show her she’s important to you. Flowers and love songs may not be everyone’s cup of tea, but make sure she knows she is valued somehow! Be protective (and maybe even occasionally possessive – though not too often). Don’t give her the impression that she’s worthless.
6. Show her you appreciate her actions. You are quite likely to be a different person to her, so it’s likely you often want different things. Be aware and perceptive of when she’s made an effort specially for you. Whether it’s a conversation she kept up even though she’s bored, a day she spent with you rather than other people, or putting up with you when you’re in a bad mood – be grateful and reciprocate whenever you can. Don’t give her the impression that she always gives but never receives.

And finally, 7. Show her you love her. Love is not just about saying “I love you”. It’s about honesty, dedication, and commitment. It’s about being truly happy for her happiness. Never make her feel unloved. All a girl wants, when you get down to it, is to fall asleep every night safe in the knowledge that she is liked, wanted, cared about and appreciated!

If you do these 7 things right, then your relationship will bring a smile to her face! Even if something does go wrong, these 7 building blocks are key to handling any problem a couple could face.