How to Win Friends and Friends
by This article I wrote thinking of those who for some reason find it difficult to make friends, and so they feel lonely and displaced.
Making friends is easy, as humans we like to relate, but know that our friends, are narrower than the links, yet they are just that, friends, friendship exists a kind of regulations, but no one mentions they are there, (like gravity) and I hope that not only read but to practice these principles.
son Accept people as they are
This is especially important if you really want to have friends, sometimes we look for perfection, and all human beings are imperfect and fail at some point (the infallible is God). You must learn to love and respect people as they are, with all faults.
Learn to listen rather than speak
All for different circumstances at some point need to be heard and that is nice to have someone not to tell us to do alone, if we only listen, if you’ll soon learn has heard many friends (as).
Learn to give than to ask
Sometimes we complain that we call them friends, we are not paying attention, and we always expect to do so, I’m saying is that we do not give instead of asking, we want to trust us, but we do not trust and friendship with that attitude does not work.
Learn to “be” when you need
Not it strange that when more is required of a person, I can not say I have something to do, or simply not therefore have your differences, do not turn invisible when one of your friends need you.
Learn to value people for who they are and not what they do
Esa es una línea muy delgada que todos hemos de alguna forma cruzado, pero nuestros amigos son importantes por lo que son no por lo que hacen, primero la persona luego su oficio, nunca pierdas de vista eso. That’s a fine line that somehow we have all crossed, but our friends are important as they are not what they do, first the person after his trade, never lose sight of that.
Learn to help others
Some people just ask for help, as their problems themselves are important and when it comes to helping others as they forget how fragile and sensitive that a person becomes how the circumstances are adverse.
Learn to say what you want to be told
How nice it is and it feels like to commend for some achievement when you congratulated for something you did, but when the others are awarded as the tongue hits the palate and no words come out, but that’s how you feel important when you I say, other people need those words.
Learn to ask for forgiveness and to forgive
Remember we are humans of flesh and blood, we fail to recognize our mistakes is important in friendship, but correcting them is to love our friends, if one is right give it, do not be so resentful, not hold grudges, be happy and try to make happy another person.
I conclude with the words of the humble carpenter love your neighbor as yourself.
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