How Would You Know If You are in Love?

Have you been in love? I bet you have. But for those who haven’t yet, here are some tips on how to find out.

1. You think about the person all the time.
2. She/he is the sole topic in every possible conversation.
3. You always see the good qualities of the other person and you can’t stop telling others how excellent he/she is.
4. Your heart leaps when he/she is around, you feel like you would like to hide.
5. You want to see the other person as often as you could.
6. You would offer everything just to make sure she will stay around.
7. You show great concern of his/her future and would be happy to guide him/her through.
8. Ask the other person to work with you so he/she will never be off your site.
9. You would never let him/her go, you would fight for him/her love because he/she is the one that keeps you happy and inspired.

Oh man, you are absolutely madly in love. But all of these would be meaningless if you won’t tell the other person what you feel. He/she has the right to know.

What would happen if you failed to let the other person know?

1. You would be gutted and depressed.
2. The pain that you would feel is immense as it’s a combination of heartache and blaming yourself for not being gutsy enough to let him/her know.
3. It would be difficult to move on because this is an unfinished business. As there must be a closure to what you feel. It’s best to let the person know. Whether he/she feels the same way or not, what’s important is at least you would know where you are. From there you could pick yourself up and be happy in love.

Not being with the one you love is painful. But loving somebody and not telling her is much more painful, most especially if you would miss to have which could have been a very successful relationship had you only been gutsy enough in telling the other person what you feel.

There is no such thing as too late. There is always a chance to free yourself from pain.

Ego could get you nowhere. Loosen up and make a call or send a message or probably send flowers.

Forget the past, deal with what you feel, don’t be a pleaser of others while you drown yourself in  pain. You are living for yourself and not for them.

Take a deep breath, deep thought about what you have read in this article and make your move. This might be a life changing moment for you.

He/she might just be waiting for you to say what you feel inside. Open up and the truth will set you free.

Always remember it doesn’t matter if he or she had left what’s important is he/she finding his/her way back to you. There is a saying “Saving the best for last”.

When you love somebody there is no condition. For love is unconditional.

If he/she is the one who makes you happy and he/she feels the same way for you as long as you are both free, well CONGRATULATIONS you have found a RECIPROCATED love. Not everyone is lucky to find one.