Hurt and Devastated

by jen92889 in Relationships, March 5, 2012

There is nothing in this world then to be loved, but when your loved one hurts you and leaves you for another women. It hurts and very devastating! Your whole existing falls right in front of your eyes! While your love one is having fun and enjoying himself.. you are trying to make things out and holding your pieces together so nothing falls apart.

When a spouse cheats, it is devastating to the marriage and to the person who was betrayed. Trust is broken and the feelings of hurt and anger can run deep. If your love is strong enough, you may be able to find it in your heart to forgive your spouse and salvage your marriage, but sometimes even with both people loving each other is sometimes not enough because your spouse is dating the same person he cheated with you with.

How do you get through this? How do you survive without the person you love with all your heart and soul. Sometimes you have to leave it in God’s hand and allow your spouse to make that decision to make if he wants to come home.

When a spouse rents his own apartment and still won’t let go of his girlfriend… He will never come back so you have to move on… It hurts and its devastating but you have to be strong and move on with your head high.

This is hard for me to do especially when you have a men who says they love you and does not want to come back.. Why? I have stand by you all years because I am your wife but I am so so sory is not coving for it.