I Introduce, The Woman of Your Dreams

Timing is Everything

So, you’ve said hello, but now you want to say more. Make sure you don’t spend too much time practicing in front of that mirror, because it might just be for naught. The old saying that women know within the first 10 seconds of meeting you whether or not they’ll ever kiss you may be an exaggeration, but it isn’t a far stretch. Most women tend to be more open to exploring romance when it is the initial context in which she is approached. Basically, she wants you to be decisive. If you want to be friends, then let’s hang out. If you want to be more, then show it now. Men think women are complicated, as much so as women think men are simple, but women’s needs are quite simple as well if you know what to look for. They just want to know where they stand, and they want a man to be bold about getting what he wants. Asking for a casual lunch date in the beginning to get to know each other instead of small conversations over months of time seems to be the better way to go.

Now you’ve got the opportunity to approach, the means to engage in conversation, and the tools to keep her interested. It’s no longer anyone’s fault but your own if the woman you’re interested in remains a distant fantasy. Even if you don’t get as close to her as you hope, as least you were brave enough to engage, and that’s the first and one of the most important steps in finding your own feminine work of art. Now, you’ve just got to make one last compromise and promise me one thing: please don’t ever use that “secret spy” line again. It’s for the best.