I Love You
by Why to say?
When to say?
And again…why to say?
The main idea: « I love you … »
What does it mean?
а) Is it an expression of any deep sincere feeling which you can not hold in yourself any more? Probably, but how do you know what exactly you feel and how to understand that it’s not the flaming passion? б) Is it the fear of the conscience which cannot bear the past? Is it the clarification? And how to make sure that it’s not just one of the ways to get someone back? It is a paradox. I start to think that this phrase is – в) only a guarantee on the expiration of goods, products, a beaten off check: «Thank for purchase». I am – yours. Very nice, now I know that I possess one more useless sinner, besides, the ugly one! « I love you! » Full stop. Moreover, a full stop with a stick as a wall – no way back. If we were friends before, forgive me, we can’t be them any more, if we already together you cannot play with me any more, it’s very serious now. And I do not want to be serious … and what should I do?
Why to say?
When you are convinced that relations reached another level, advanced degree, that they will proceed and that this person is not associated with a word simply “nice” and ‘cute’ any more. At this point some people prefer to put original “flag” on the border: attraction – love. The following stage will be “marriage”. What for? What do we complicate it for? Why cannot we enjoy the company of one another, not frightening each other with phrases such as: «when we will have the first … » or « in 10 years we … » … how many hours a day do you spend thinking about these things? No, I am not ready to spend the rest of y life with you. This is why I left Dimitriy. You shouldn’t have had draw the picture of us together in 10 years so vividly. Good-bye.
Why it is necessary?
Say: «it is good to be with you», or «I need you», « I miss you madly », and you were so stupidly direct «I – - love you» – what does it mean? A mere phrase consisting of two pronouns and one verb. So what? Should I burst with excitement and kiss you? Forgive me, it won’t happen, I arrange scenes only at school and only in a state of intoxication! What do you want me to say? I am trying to be an artist here and nobody managed to invent something nicer than I love you yet… I’ll wait. I do not want to use the same method to get you in bed with me. It all end the same way anyway. Keep it to yourself. Use it on someone else, someone more sentimental.
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