I Think He Likes Me-why is He Being Rude to Me?
by Why would a woman want a relationship with a man who insults her and then tells her he loves her during nightfall? He does not love her. He loves the sex. He is probably a narcissist. Why would I want a man who treadles my self image?
Suzette is in love with Carter but cannot understand why when they are in public, he is rude and obnoxious. Suzette’s friends claim that he likes her but he does not know how to express his feelings and therefore he comes off as being offensive.
My advice to Suzette was simply to lose Carter because he was either immature or narcissistic to believe that the correct way to tell a woman that you are feeling her was to insult her beyond reproach. it is true that pubescent boys are very aggressive and truculent to the object of their affection. But when a grown man behaves the same way. It calls for intervention.
Why would a woman want a relationship with a man who insults her and then tells her he loves her during nightfall? He does not love her. He loves the sex. He is probably a narcissist. Why would i want a man who treadles my self image? He does not love her, he likes the idea of belittling her. Making her feel less of a person to satisfy his personal needs and improve his experiences.
I told her to end the relationship. She does not need a man in her life that is going to trample on her self concept. She does not need a man whose self confidence depends on demeaning her in public and destroying her social experiences. She does not need a man who is as petulant and puerile as a child, throwing tantrums when he feels his self assurance is being threatened. She does not need a parasite in her life, to suck the sustenance and life force from her being. A woman does not need a man who verbally abuses her in the name of love and care.
If thats the way a man who cares for a woman treats her, then i do not want any man to care for me.
wouldn’t you agree?
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Post CommentLeonardo da Vinci E.
On December 2, 2009 at 12:26 pm
As an Humanist Athiest I would have to point out the fact that religions are mixed with mysticism, peculiar hatreds, and superstition….it would be better to raise children with objective ethics based on fairness and Justice. That way you won’t be creating men who realize consciously and subconsciously that the (un)holy bible rates women as second class citizens, and who secretly believes that she is a major cause of (imaginary)sin in the world, or that she can never be equal to a man, and must know her place(or be put in it). In fact, he would have no hatred against her being an equal being. In fact, he would have no belief in the mystical idea that a “she” brought sin into this world. In fact, he would not hold a superstitious belief that his talents as a male automatically makes his decisions in life right and something for which women should simply put up with. If you are bringing up children with a belief system created by the minds of cavemen(who told everybody their ideas were holy) than you can be sure the results will be something nobody wants to live with.