In the Mind of a Woman

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     Have you ever wondered what goes on in a mind of a woman? The thoughts, the actions, the dreams, the pain that every women passes through in some point or another in her life? 90% of men would probably pay a fortune to enter in their lover’s mind and discover all her deepest secrets. Saying that men come from Mars and women come from Venus, is merely a superficial conclusion when keeping in mind all the differences and yet the similarities that exist between a man and a woman. The differences in our body structures tend to be insignificant when compared to those which exist in our state of mind and ways of reasoning things out.

     The purpose of this article though is not to stay comparing these differences but rather to point out some of the thoughts and aspects that play a crucial role in woman’s mind. Being a woman myself, does not necessarily mean I am an expert in this subject yet to some extent I do understand the mechanics that trigger off the mind of a woman.

     An important aspect that one has to keep in mind when trying to understand women is that a woman passes through many different stages in her life. She plays many different roles; she is a mother, a sister, a wife, a friend and a human per se. At times, she is in love, then she is in pain, she is lost or confused, she feels powerless, yet strong and she acts in weird ways. Yes it is true, our men are right, when they tell us that we act in weird ways at times! These weird moments tend to take over when we let our emotions run deep, and hence act with our heart even though we do try our best to use our mind.

     Hormones play a crucial part in the way woman think and act. Every woman spends her days having mood swings. Unfortunately hormones can play a really frustrating role in our lives! At times we are overexcited, other times we feel anxious and insecure. Our hormones do play a very important role in all of these ups and downs which we do tend to set free on our men.

     What all women want in their lives though is just a sense of belonging and security. Every woman looks out for safety in her life; she wants to feel safe and independent yet she does feel the necessity to be challenged and contradicted at times too.

     Another important aspect that one has to keep in mind is that every woman is different, yet all of them have some things in common. All women know what they want in their life, and all of them know how to get it in some way or another. Some might succeed, others not. Some find happiness easily; others find only pain and hurt. Some of them get humiliated, abused, raped, and mistreated, while others are loved, cared of, and wanted. A woman is capable of enduring physical pain more then a man. She got the greatest power of all; she is able of giving life. Some of them, want a career, others want a family, while several want both.

     Summing up, in the mind of a woman, hundreds of thoughts might run per minute, yet one single thought might dominate her mind for years. In the mind of a woman, runs a river of words, of emotions, of sorrows, and at times a river of happiness. For all of you out there, get yourself prepared because in her mind, there is absolutely no black or white!