Increase Your Dating Success for The Internet User: Writing an Exciting Profile
by You don’t have to be Brad Pitt or George Clooney to interest the millions of women on the internet. The same goes for girls. You don’t have to be the next Super Model either. To the average looking person it is all about the person you are and not just the way you look that will increase your chances of success in the dating world. The KEY is to excite your audience and that starts with a real good profile.
So you are part of the Internet Dating pool of millions right? That’s probably why you are reading this article. Or maybe you are just curious as to what all the fuss is about.
Internet Dating has been around for a few years now. There are hundreds of sites out there, some better than others and that doesn’t always mean you have to pay either. Let’s get that one out the way for a start.
But you sit there and think, you now I’ve been on the Internet Dating sites for some time now and my success has been pretty much average or maybe nothing at all. Yes, we all get responses but why are some girls and guys getting better success than me? I mean, it isn’t as though they have great pictures posted or are drop dead gorgeous!
Okay, looking good is helpful. But ask any guy or girl and a majority will say that what interests them is that “spark”. It’s that chemistry they always talk about.
I know guys who have dated beautiful women and a few girls that have dated pin up type guys. But nearly all of them never stuck around. Why? Not because they could get better, but because the average guy or average girl got BORED of them!
So where does that start? How can YOU, the average looking guy or girl, get to date someone on your wavelength?
We all want someone to excite us! Girls more than guys. Let’s face it the girls want a man who is many things and most men have to second guess what they are. But how do we go about increasing our chances at the beginning of finding out?
How Do We Get Their Attention At The Beginning?
First you have to write about YOU. But that isn’t as easy as it sounds and most profiles out there read very similar or are either too long, too short, too forward or just way, way too boring. People have a glance and quickly move onto the next potential “target”.
Well there are a few “tricks” out there to get the initial interest. But it will take a little imagination, time and effort to get this down on the screen and capture the interest of your potential date.
BE EXCITING!
Don’t just write something boring about you walking the dog or going down the gym. Make it entertaining to read. Add a bit f creativity and humour to the description. Girls as much as guys like humour. Just don’t go over the top though. People will quickly pick up on you trying to be too funny. So a little “quirkiness” is what is required!
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