Infidelity

Infidelity is common nowadays.  Don’t you guys think so?  Is there any solutions to make this not happen at all?  Surveys have generally shown that whenever and wherever marriage is concerned, infidelity is one of the biggest concern.  That is something a lot of people do not know.  Can marriages be saved from this doom ever.  They say to make a marriage work needs both in a couple-hood to co-operate.  And to destroy it takes both parties as well.  In a marriage, it’s the wife and the husband.  And in an infidelity situation, it is always the case between the husband or the wife and another outside party named the “scandal”.  

Infidelity can happen anywhere.  It is almost mutual.  The excitement and rush of being in an affair is something that can never be described.  Almost instantaneously, when you read books on scandal affairs; normally fiction ones, the author will describe the feelings of infidelity as something very poignant, sweet and yet very intriguing at the same time.  Both involved in the scandalous affair do not feel that they are committing any mistakes whatsoever.  And without them realizing it, other parties are hurt indirectly.  Several factors which people blame infidelity would be that physical appearance of the spouse are no longer attractive, no more love in the marriage, having some bedroom issues with their spouses and many more.  The question here, is infidelity inevitable?  It seems like almost everyone is into it and doing it.  Those that are in affairs would say they don’t care what others think, asking what is the wrong in it; could there possibly be any and what worst would the consequences be. 

Many young adults are scared on embarking marriage due to this infidelity factor.  It seems like getting married is a poison and this so called “disease” can attack 5-10 years down the road.  Or worst, 15-20 and more.  Old couples are getting divorced because the husband ends up with someone more younger and some say, “sassy”.  The rich wives having affairs because they are not pleased with their ever busy husbands and many more  Just take a look at the series Desperate Housewives for some of the affairs that have been committed.  The writers are exceptionally brilliant and there is no gender classification definitely when it comes to shows like that.  I take each character study into question and compare to a real life situation.  Back to general talk.  Some of the infidelity partners aren’t beautiful at all.  They don’t even have money but yet they are having an affair outside of their marriage.  Is it the adrenaline rush?  Or the saying that the “grass is greener on the other side” comes in handy when giving excuses for having an affair.  Whatever it is, the ones that end up getting hurt are the victims that have been cheated. 

Once an infidelity takes place, there will be lies upon lies.  In short, lies of deceit.  Being too strict or too lenient can also cause this to happen.  Infidelity happens everywhere; in a school environment, in the office, at most work environments and especially when there is always a man and a woman working together closely.  Tongues will wag, and sometimes both are not having an affair.  But put 2 and 2 together, chances are there will likely be one.  This is not a stereotype post against marriage, but it is rather when 2 individuals decide to get married, they have to make sure that they will never, ever hurt their partner in the long run.  Infidelity is something serious and not to be taken lightly.  Once the seal of trust is broken, it will be hard to glue back the broken pieces.  They say prevention is better than cure.

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