Internet Dating Comes with Deception, Lies, and a Person That is a Total Stranger

The time has come, we are together married living the life that was meant for me to live. First few months are enchanting, this man is what I have been looking for, what a blissful relationship. After a few months, when traveling together as family, the daughter, son or another family member start to see distasteful little things about this person your husband. You start to wonder about things such as did I make the right decision about marrying this individual? As time goes by you start getting complains from your children, and then the complains come from other family members. You as the individual in conflict of interest fail to see what all the fuss is about. At first it was the small complaints, later it became obvious that this individual has problems in general, physical, but mostly emotional. It begin when he’d get all bent out of shape over the air conditioner which I had set to a certain temperature setting ensuring the house stayed cool through out, there was only one tiny little problem, here is the scenario: Daughters in their bedrooms sleeping, husband decides to raise the thermostat, making the house feel hot, heat awakes up the girls, they go adjust the thermostat with out thinking any thing of it. He turns around and sets it to 50 degrees which makes the house cold as hell, my children were freezing, a confrontation arises between them, I’m at work, and get a call about his conduct. He then proceeds to disconnects the outlet outside the house, this is weird to me, let alone to my daughters, which to them he is stranger. Early on in the relationship, he began to, when an argument would arise storm out of the house to the back yard and lay on either the front or the back yard and just lay there for hours crying and cursing, wishing death upon himself. These things were happening very early into the relationship, he displayed feelings of suicidal thoughts, threatens to commit such threats upon himself, which has kept me from ever leaving him, afraid that he may commit such a monstrous act to himself. After a couple of years together he has achieved his desire of making my children feel uncomfortable enough to leave home, but thank God it was for the best, because today my two daughters after leaving home, to attend University of San Antonio, in Texas are six months shy of graduation, and despite the relationship between them and my husband, I remain very close, to both of them, I still struggle with his threads. And there is so much more to this story, which I will post later, but please be weary of love in forbidden places, like Internet dating.